Ladiaynoche wrote:

Hello. First of all, this forum has been amazing and the best part of the breakup has been rediscovering LOA and self-love. My question is regarding thoughts. I have always been an over thinker and for the first week after the breakup all I could think about was my person. But lately I don’t think about him as much and I can’t tell if that’s good or bad. I know he’s my soulmate and we will get back together but if I’m not thinking about him, am I slowing the manifestation? This is so new to me. Usually after a breakup I’m the one that constantly texts but I’ve stuck with no contact this time around. Any tips would be great!

No, it's not a bad thing to not think about him all of the time. It's a good thing not to obsess over him and to live your life. One of the best things I did was to take my energy back from him. I'd given far too much to him, and once he started to feel the lack of it, he came back.