Yes, my situation was similar to yours. But it doesn’t matter if it looks like he’s in love with her. You can’t know what another person is truly feeling. You always get what you believe to be true, so knowing this, just feel that your connection with him has always been stronger. Maybe look at it like him dating this other girl only made him realize all the more how much he loves you. You are in control of it, because you create it all. Even your experience and interaction with him. So just create it how you want it to be.

You’re welcome

Not yet, but only because I haven’t kept my focus.

Thanks! Just that I’ve been allowing myself to focus too much on current reality lately.

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Angel_0199 wrote:

I just found out she’s moving to our city... she’s just finished college in her country and is coming over here. Meanwhile he went back and changed the caption of the photo of them to saying she was special (he previously deleted it). I don’t know whether she’s coming specifically for him or to study more but...it’s freaked me out because it’s the worse case scenario that I hadn’t even considered. I feel sick, I thought they weren’t together anymore. I can’t stop shaking hahaha it’s so out of the blue

Please share some advice if you have it xo

This is most likely a manifestation of your fears surrounding the situation. As you said, you don’t know why she’s moving, so don’t imagine the worst case scenario. They might have broken up before but are considering getting back together. But whatever the reason, it doesn’t matter. She isn’t part of your ideal reality with him so there’s no need to focus on her or them. I know it can be difficult, but the only thing you really can do is focus only on your relationship with him and ignore the rest. Remember that everything, including other people, conform to your beliefs. You have the power to manifest what you want, so start feeling and believing that you have a strong connection with him. Start feeling that you have the relationship with him right now. This other girl doesn’t matter because he’s your boyfriend and there’s no need to even think about her. That’s where you want your focus to be. Whatever you don’t give your attention to eventually fades away.

Angel_0199 wrote:

Thank you so so much. I’ve blocked her on Facebook and insta so I won’t be tempted to ever look her up or anything. I need to get control of my feelings, it’s been a tough couple of months with a variety of issues and it’s just taken a complete toll on how I see myself and raise my vibrations. I completely agree that I’ve manifested this with my fears, I’ve tried so hard not to think about them or her or to just view her as out of his life, I could never seem to wipe her from my conscience though. It feels almost impossible to forget about her now 😂 sorry for this negative post, it’s still very raw and I’m hurting a lot 😂

Xo

No worries, everyone goes through bad times. I’m sorry that you’re hurting right now

Blocking her was a good move. Everyone is equal, she’s not any better than you. And reality only reflects what you feel and believe about yourself and everything. You’ll get there