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Help still having trouble
I am living with my mom not happy living with her, my boyfriend keeps hanging around bad drug people and not cleaning up his act. We have 3 year daughter. Can i attract a better version of my boyfriend and the life I want or find better. I really don't want my daughter in a broken home and made a promise years ago before she was born. Please help.
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Re: Help still having trouble
What are his good qualities? Start from there, write a list of all the traits you want him to have and imagine them as fact.
It Is Not What Happens To You, It Is How You Respond To It.
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Okay, he's very much a sweet heart and when he's sober he's very much more interesting to be around. More energized and ready to go. Motivated and driven. Passionate about things he loves and expresses it well. When he's not angered he's the best person to be around. And, he's stood up for me since middle school.
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Hi, i really want to thank you so much for replying me. I thought no one gonna reply and understand me and my daughter's situation. Yes today i imagined him being around me with the qualities i always wanted and i will do it daily once with feeling of it. From long time i have been doing some other things to be in positive state but whenever i came in contact with him, i had some good expectations but it mostly turned out to be his bad behaviour and that made my positive state broke.
Its like i try hard to build it and he destroys it in seconds. What else i can do to have a shield on myself?
Thanks again
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