Adrita wrote:

I Know, i just want to look at his face...silly mistake.  Do i have to unblock him? After all i Know i must stay away and focus on positive thoughts. And let him come to me at the right time.

You don’t have to unblock him but if it will make you feel better, then I think you should. That’s all your focus should be right now. Feeling better. Don’t do things that could hurt you like looking at things you shouldn’t. Yes I agree that you should stay away and let him come to you. It’s ok to look at pictures you might have of him but don’t go on social media to do it.

fizzy wrote:

Adrita wrote:

I Know, i just want to look at his face...silly mistake.  Do i have to unblock him? After all i Know i must stay away and focus on positive thoughts. And let him come to me at the right time.

You don’t have to unblock him but if it will make you feel better, then I think you should. That’s all your focus should be right now. Feeling better. Don’t do things that could hurt you like looking at things you shouldn’t. Yes I agree that you should stay away and let him come to you. It’s ok to look at pictures you might have of him but don’t go on social media to do it.

OK, i Will follow your advierte. Thank you

Adrita wrote:

OK, i Will follow your advierte. Thank you

You’re welcome Just remember that even though you love him, it’s healthy to have your own interests and to be ok when you’re not with him. Even if you were together right now, it’s still good to have your own interests and goals apart from the relationship. You have the opportunity to get those things for yourself right now.

Adrita wrote:

Some friend told me that i need to start doing my grieve instead of try to atract my love back. She told me that i was making longer my pain and that my love is moving on, she also assure me that he's really happy whitout me, and he is having fun and smiling all the time. .. I've tried to explain about LOA, and she answered that it sounds beatiuful, but im lossing my life and Wasting my time. i refused to believe that... I Know that he Will be here with me at the right time. But with all the things that had happened lately its Hard to ignore, and to keep positive  thoughts...will you please help me?  He hasn't even unblocked me, and and that makes me feel, rejected, sad, anxious, and from time to time angry.

People around me are telling me that i must forget about him, everyone except For my Mother. She's the only one supporting me. I Know that i do love him, and i want us to be together For life.

I've quit social media and I do revisions (Neville's) visualización, lately i've been doing whispering technique.... I've read about self love.... And im trying so hard no to loose my hope...please please, give me some guidance.

Don’t tell anyone you’re planning to attract him back with the LOA. Unless those people are like-minded, like we are on this forum, that often doesn’t go well and can set you back. You’re only going to continue to slow things down if you keep focusing on still being blocked, him moving on, etc. If you really quit social media, you wouldn’t even be noticing if you’re still blocked or not. I think right now you are doing things out of desperation, and you need to still just focus on yourself until you’re feeling better.

Adrita wrote:

fizzy wrote:

Adrita wrote:

Some friend told me that i need to start doing my grieve instead of try to atract my love back. She told me that i was making longer my pain and that my love is moving on, she also assure me that he's really happy whitout me, and he is having fun and smiling all the time. .. I've tried to explain about LOA, and she answered that it sounds beatiuful, but im lossing my life and Wasting my time. i refused to believe that... I Know that he Will be here with me at the right time. But with all the things that had happened lately its Hard to ignore, and to keep positive  thoughts...will you please help me?  He hasn't even unblocked me, and and that makes me feel, rejected, sad, anxious, and from time to time angry.

People around me are telling me that i must forget about him, everyone except For my Mother. She's the only one supporting me. I Know that i do love him, and i want us to be together For life.

I've quit social media and I do revisions (Neville's) visualización, lately i've been doing whispering technique.... I've read about self love.... And im trying so hard no to loose my hope...please please, give me some guidance.

Don’t tell anyone you’re planning to attract him back with the LOA. Unless those people are like-minded, like we are on this forum, that often doesn’t go well and can set you back. You’re only going to continue to slow things down if you keep focusing on still being blocked, him moving on, etc. If you really quit social media, you wouldn’t even be noticing if you’re still blocked or not. I think right now you are doing things out of desperation, and you need to still just focus on yourself until you’re feeling better.

About being blocked, i just can see it on WhatsApp. About he is moving on... People are telling me without asking of course some days i feel desperate and even depressed. But there are many days, or mostly all day when I feel confident and secure. We work at the same place, we live really near. People around us is the same. Its Hard For me to stay focus because of the situation.

Im trying really Hard to be ok with my self, but my lifestyle Its no common at all, i travel all the time because of my work and he was my home...

It was the same with me. My mum was the only one who was supportive about my being with my SP, and she's dead and gone now. Don't listen to other people. Like fizzy said, don't talk to people about loa who aren't like minded. They will only tell you the same sort of things you've been told, and that will only interfere. If whatsapp is showing you things that aren't in your best interests to see, then just don't look. If you really want this SP, you've got to do whatever it takes to stay focussed on that and not be distracted by other people or social media or anything else that's going to give you negative messages about it. If you weren't struggling, you wouldn't keep asking for help. Help yourself more by avoiding these negative distractions as much as you possibly can and keep imagining having the ideal relationship you want with your SP as if you have it right now. The only thing that matters is what you believe, not what anybody else thinks or says about it. As Neville said in his lecture, Brazen Impudence, you are the only one who can keep you from having your desire by failing to persist in imagining it into creation. I'm paraphrasing because I can't remember his exact words, but that's what he was saying. 
 

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