Sam wrote:

Be honest with yourself here. You say that you have failed too many times and for that reason you are afraid to try more techniques. How long have you REALLY tried each time before you "failed?" I mean, really think about it. The people who attract their loved one back are the people who diligently, sometimes for months on end KEEP the faith, and positive attitude. To me it seems as though you try to stay positive for a while but then when you don't see any results after a short amount of time, the doubt starts to creep in, and then you think you've failed.

The things is that using the LOA does not end with your love. You're using it constantly but we often forget that because our minds can run by themselves. I would also like to point out that the techniques are NOT what will bring your love back. The techniques are used to make you feel good and stay focused on the final result. THAT is what will bring you your desire.You can visualize all day long but if you don't feel good about it, it's not going to do anything except make you feel bad.

You have to dig deep within you and find the strength to pull yourself back up and try to be happy again. Then you have to learn how to stay happy. Be patient with yourself because it's a process. The people you see here on the forum who are having successes, it's because they've put in the real work of disciplining their thoughts and focusing on being happy! But I can promise you that they "failed" dozens of times before they REALLY committed to their journey. That's what you have to do.

You have not failed and you will not fail, because it's never too late. You have unlimited opportunities to make your dreams come true. Do not beat yourself up for falling into negatives moods, it happens to all of us. Instead try to look on the bright side and appreciate your bad moods, because they're a signal to you. That's your TRUE SELF letting you know that you're going the wrong way! Think of it as a gentle reminder to reach for more positive thoughts.

You can absolutely do this!

thank you for this, Sam. 

"But I can promise you that they "failed" dozens of times before they REALLY committed to their journey. That's what you have to do."  

^ I completely agree! Failing and having a bad day is a part of the journey. Today was a bit of a struggle but it's okay, I'm working on getting out of it and by changing them momentum and moving past this negative energy, you're clearing out your vibrations to more positivity and good things to come. everything will be okay.

loved that last paragraph. i think we all tend to beat ourselves up like "come on why are you upset, stop, you won't get what you want if you're upset" but that ends up making us more upset lmaoooo it's definitely important that we be gentle on ourselves about all of this. we're doing our best to rewrite years of negative momentum and beliefs, and it takes some time. we just got to have faith, believe and keep going. it will all come to fruition soon enough.

 

Last edited by nsquared (12/04/2015 10:07 pm)

Guys, I got a tiny problem here. I think I haven't fully forget what happened in the past. All the bad things he did to me, those hurt. Those friends. What if he don't want me because my friendship between me and our common friends just... goes off? Arhh.. I don't know how do I change us due to so many problems between us. I know I shouldn't be negative about this, I just didn't know how to think through how this works. I guess a miracle is what I needed.

I'm so thankful for your reply sam! Thankyou! But I guess I need to let all my negative emotion out, my sister that going to married soon came to my county today and she asked me about us, I told her the whole story. I found out it still hurts. And I feels like crying and I'm sooo scared that I'll attract the bad and block my manifestation. I know I still want him. Because I know he's the only one who know me so so much and he's the one. Before this, I keep on avoids the past because whenever I think of it even just a little tiny part it would just hurts like hell. So I decided to talk about it and force myself to face it and let myself to get into the emotion...it felt really weird as there's a sudden attack in my chest well, I have to admit it's awful. I still feel it slightly now. Ignoring it does not really help and it only make he emotion worst. I just wanted to know that is facing it and solve it is the right way?? Will I attract the bad or block the manifestation? Is there anything else I can fully forgive and forget? And he can come and ask for a second chance to start over?