Thanks guys should I ask him out or should I always let him ask me out? He said he had the day off tomorrow so I suggested we do something and he seemed kind of vague despite he just got done saying he wished we could cuddle tonight, lol. I need to calm down, my nerves have been on fire last few days he's says he misses me and wants to cuddle and stuff but he hasn't brought up bout going on more dates (it's me suggesting it) so idk.

Last edited by Tinkerbell (12/06/2015 4:49 pm)

I'm notorious for making this mistake.. I think like a creator and then when my manifestation comes I freak out and start thinking from a place of fear! Relax, no need to do that! 😘

Sam wrote:

Tinkerbell, try EFT. It did wonders for me when I was having a panic attack and my chest felt tight. I used and EFT video for fear by Brad Yates on YouTube. It was the first time I ever tried it and felt so relieved afterwards!

Which video of his did you use? I've seen some of his videos but I've never tried them. Do you just follow along and repeat what he says or do the motions and just listen?

I did it and it helped for awhile but it take came back lol. Have to keep doing it I guess.

I actually saw him today...it was good at first and then he got so absorbed with his buddies being around he pretty much ignored me and treated me like one of the guys. Literally the whole time I was with him my chest was in a bundle of tension. Last night he wanted me to come over and I suggested a later night this week and he seemed eager, now I just I asked if he still wanted to and he said maybe, and he had to check when his mom wanted him to have dinner with her. SOO yeah...love planning for things I don't know will happen and now I'm even more frustrated. Don't mean to be negative just have to vent lol.

Last edited by Tinkerbell (12/08/2015 1:02 am)

Thanks cherished, I wonder if it'd be good to imagine writing on a slate what things I want the day to bring haha. All I need is this icky feeling of anxiety to move away from my chest lol