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SORRY Cynthia I was trying to reply quickly before practice and I didn’t reread what I wrote. But i basically was saying that I was focusing on myself and trying not to obsess over the outcome and how it was going to be seeing him again initially after not hearing from him prior to not hearing or seeing him and learn to act as if everything is in the works of us getting back together . It’s just been kind of confusing because ever since he had found out that he had to go to court he pretty much ghosted me for weeks until we had to see each other at practice last week and then he explained and apologized over text after we saw another at practice so there was an uncertainty of not knowing where we stood but I mean now there is contact thst msinly pertains to us being in dance and small talk i guess it not something he really wants to talk about in practice (the legal issues) but I definitely feel less resistance from him so I’m hoping the communication isn’t too far I feel better about it .. sorry if I’m confusing tbh this situation has been confusing lol
If you want to, you can influence his life being a lot better and with the legal issues behind him by the same use of imagination. I've done it myself so I know it works.
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AHHH! Okay that’s brilliant I will try that! I’m actually about to do Lanies PW meditation this would be perfect 👌🏾 thank you
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AHHH! Okay that’s brilliant I will try that! I’m actually about to do Lanies PW meditation this would be perfect 👌🏾 thank you
I do that as well sometimes, but you don't need to use that to influence a change for the better for him. When I did it for my bloke, I hadn't even heard of pw. He had the worst imaginable legal problems at the time. The worst of it is behind him. Good luck to you.
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Okay so the back story is that we have been dating for about 3 months or so we’ve been taking it slow but in my opinion at a good pace. I know he’s briefly shared with me that he’s had a rough past growing up as well as had made bad decisions. So he’s actually been going through legal issues and pretty much told me that he is sorry for the distance between us but that’s hes not the guy I need in my life right now but loves me and definitely sees a future with me but it’s been a little weird because he’s been a little resistant toward me in person which I assume it’s also has to do with the legal issues he has going on and all that he has to prepare for for that but I’ve been visualizing and using lanie Stevens techniques as well as Veronica’s and sometimes Agnes whispering technique I now he feels the love that I send to him although he doesn’t show it in person but I know he just feels really crappy . I’ve also been keeping busy training, working out, being with friends and keeping the vibes up and focusing on me and figuring out how to act is if lol but as far as me texting him I don’t which I was would initiate and in person it’s pretty minimal I try to mirror him but pretty it positive
I don't understand the last bit you wrote. You already have contact now, so no contact doesn't apply. If I were you, I would be as good a friend as I could to him and be as supportive as possible without being pushy about it, being there for him when he needs you and letting him take the lead as to when that is, whilst imagining that you already have the most ideal end result, whatever that means to you, whether it's being his girlfriend and all of his legal issues have been sorted and are behind him and no longer causing any problems, or whether you're happily married to each other, or whatever it is that you want. From your description, I have had a similar sort of situation which has yet to be resolved and which I am working on. I also use Lanie's meditations and have found that her recordings help a lot more than doing it without them, and she's got a new youtube channel that she's put some helpful videos on over the last couple of weeks.
Thank you for mentioning my YouTube Channel and I'm glad you're enjoying my meditations. :-)
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Thank you Lanie for all that you do!!!
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Okay so the back story is that we have been dating for about 3 months or so we’ve been taking it slow but in my opinion at a good pace. I know he’s briefly shared with me that he’s had a rough past growing up as well as had made bad decisions. So he’s actually been going through legal issues and pretty much told me that he is sorry for the distance between us but that’s hes not the guy I need in my life right now but loves me and definitely sees a future with me but it’s been a little weird because he’s been a little resistant toward me in person which I assume it’s also has to do with the legal issues he has going on and all that he has to prepare for for that but I’ve been visualizing and using lanie Stevens techniques as well as Veronica’s and sometimes Agnes whispering technique I now he feels the love that I send to him although he doesn’t show it in person but I know he just feels really crappy . I’ve also been keeping busy training, working out, being with friends and keeping the vibes up and focusing on me and figuring out how to act is if lol but as far as me texting him I don’t which I was would initiate and in person it’s pretty minimal I try to mirror him but pretty it positive
I don't understand the last bit you wrote. You already have contact now, so no contact doesn't apply. If I were you, I would be as good a friend as I could to him and be as supportive as possible without being pushy about it, being there for him when he needs you and letting him take the lead as to when that is, whilst imagining that you already have the most ideal end result, whatever that means to you, whether it's being his girlfriend and all of his legal issues have been sorted and are behind him and no longer causing any problems, or whether you're happily married to each other, or whatever it is that you want. From your description, I have had a similar sort of situation which has yet to be resolved and which I am working on. I also use Lanie's meditations and have found that her recordings help a lot more than doing it without them, and she's got a new youtube channel that she's put some helpful videos on over the last couple of weeks.Thank you for mentioning my YouTube Channel and I'm glad you're enjoying my meditations. :-)
You're very welcome, Lanie. I've watched all of them, more than once. I really like them.
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