Laura1234 wrote:

So, what do you think, which Superman game is good for get him back ?His first game or second game about 5 minutes imagine and forgot it ? Can this game give me a right state?
Because I dont know be happy all the time about him..This night I was cry so much again. I really dont know be in state that Im already with him.I always focus what he doing now etc and I know that its a mistake.. I know be in right state for a one, two day or a few minutes ....I really dont know how I have change this all.I try every advice what you give me and others ,but I still dont know do it full..
And what is the key keep a relationship when we already have our person ? When it isnt about selflove , or be always happy ? Is it about feelings that we will have this relationship forever ? Is it about a faith that we will always with this person ?
And meredithanne90, sorry I ask my questions in your post

No technique or game is a guarantee. It helps some people, because like you they don't really know what to do and the game leads them there. So for some, it works because they more or less accidentally do the right thing. But it's really just a bridge to bring you to a different feeling place. If it doesn't make you feel differently, it doesn't work. But I think the 5 minute game is better than to think about it all day every day for sure - and if it's just for your mental health. Speaking about mental health...why are you still crying after such a long time? Maybe it would be best for you to let go of him for a while. You should be over the breakup by now.
Your problem is that you try every advice. You mix it all up. When you cook and put everything you have in your kitchen in the pot, you aren't surprised that it tasts like crap, right? Doing much doesn't always help much. In this case, it's more hindering than helping. I dropped a lot of stuff that I was suggesting before, because I didn't get consistent results with it - so I knew it couldn't be the end. With what I tell you know, I got consistent results in the past and I am playing with it a lot right now. And I honestly thing that this is the end, because everything makes sense with it, it's so simple when you finally get it and you only need to train one skill to improve your whole life. But that doesn't mean you have to listen to me. You have to be critical yourself. But if you decide to listen to me, listen to what I have to say and drop all the rest (including what I have said in the past). Don't combine it with feeling good and affirmations and all kind of other crap. It doesn't work, when you mix everything together.
It's not really about feeling that you have the relationship forever. Well, when you feel that than it happens that way of course, but you could change this feeling tomorrow and feel insecure about the relationship and even if you had felt that the relationship will last forever for the past 10 years, what counts is what you feel now and now and now. A long lasting relationship can come from a few states, for example you believing that he won't ever leave you, you believing that you are the kind of person who has long and fulfilled relationships, you believing that this particular relationship will last and you belong together.

Laura1234 wrote:

So, what do you think, which  Superman game is good for get him back ?His first game or second game about 5 minutes imagine and forgot it ? Can this game give me a right state?
  Because I dont know be happy all the time about him..This night I was cry so much again. I really dont know be in state that Im already with him.I always focus what he doing now etc and I know that its a mistake.. I know be in right state for a one, two day or a few minutes ....I really dont know how I have change this all.I try every advice what you give me and others ,but I still dont know do it full..
And what is the key keep a relationship when we already have our person ? When it isnt about selflove , or be always happy ? Is it about feelings that we will have this relationship forever ? Is it about a faith that we will always with this person ?
And meredithanne90, sorry I ask my questions in your post

What you benefit from right now is to stop look for techniques to manifest your guy back and concentrate on getting to a state of emotional stability.

Currently you are using techniques as a band aid for the hurt you are feeling.

Spend time healing from the break up. There is no time frame in which someone should get over heartache. But if you are still crying and sad then you should really address that first and foremost. If you need to cry then cry. Emotions are there to show you what needs to be addressed within you. And right now your state shows you need to get over this break up. Resolve all that went wrong. Spend time working on that.

Laura1234 wrote:

Well, I want give me a challenge two months from this day, dont stalk him and try dont think about him and tell about him and try dont think about him 2 months. And give him a space and believe, that he will contact me etc .this my decision give me a feel and belief, that I can get him back this way. so am I on right way when this my decision give me a fell that it can work? Even thought I have a little fear ,I hold on dont stalk him and what I will see when I will see his profile after 2 months.. I dont know how I can stop afraid. Because I always afraid about something.. my fear is my the biggest obstacle. But I want believe even thought I have a fear..

What Oasiscalm and I were suggesting was not about "letting go in order to attract him back". It was a letting go in order for you to be abe to live your life again. What you do isn't healthy at all. The funny thing is..as long as you make it about him, you can't get him back anyway. So by doing that you are hurting yourself constantly and you won't get anything out of it ever. Take a step back.

Soldier boy wrote:

Hey guys, I'm New on here but read Depack Chopra the Path to love. Hope it helps.

Thank you how did you find Deepak’s book?