This is an update from when I️ last posted about my recent success. And I’m kind of anxious when I️ really don’t want to be :/

My POI ended up texting me a very sweet message of how he had been thinking about me all the time and missed me. We ended up talking over the phone and I️ was honest and forward with what I️ wanted.

I️ didn’t want to jump right into a relationship because I️ didn’t want to be a rebound for his ex-girlfriend. If he really does have feelings for me, then his ex would be permanently out of the picture. In my reality she just doesn’t exist, and I️ want it to stay that way.

Well my guy ended up changing his tune a little when I️ said what I️ wanted, and it made me feel nervous and a little scared. He said he didn’t know if he could stop talking to her completely because they were once good friends, and if he does see her again he is unsure if his feelings for her will re-ignite. This girl hasn’t been the most faithful person and had been known to lie throughout their relationship. So she already rubs me the wrong way.

I️ know if we really want change, we can’t keep accepting their current undesirable behavior when they come back. It’s basically just rewarding them. In that moment, my guy suddenly had resistance, and it made me fearful of losing all the progress I️ made because I️ REALLY don’t want to go through the same motions of RS and visualizing the type of relationship I️ want again.

I️ guess what I’m trying to ask is - how do I️ just stay calm and let the universe take control? I’m so anxious that I️ can’t even visualize properly anymore and doubts are starting to creep in when I️ KNOW they hinder the process, but I️ can’t help it!
Some help would be appreciated.