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12/03/2017 11:38 am  #1


How to keep positive after long NC period?

Hi...

It's 6 months of no contact. 5 months of no liking anything on my social media. But he constantly views my story. And i'm very grateful for that. And it's long distance.

Christmas week would be the first time we met... And to not be talking still is just...

In May when I found LoA and decided to stop contacting him, I asked the universe to see a specific model of car of he's near.

I saw a car with the model name, bur a different one in october.

And just two weeks ago I received a pic randomly on whatsapp when I asked my friend to send me a pic of where he was, and this time it's the exact thing I asked for. And i thanked the universe for that.

I thanked the universe everynight that he came into my life and allow me to feel what I do. That we're connected, that he misses me just as much.

How do you continue to keep the faith high? I don't know what I'm doing wrong. How do you believe that it's all fine given a long period of not talking and being far apart? How do you fend off all these negative thoughts? Isit crazy to believe it will all be ok even regardless of everything that has happened aka him telling me he see me as nothing more than a friend now?

I've been feeling this way for a while but I put off posting because posting this just means Im intensifying it. But the one person I used to be able to talk to about LoA isn't very interested in talking about it and to get "lol" after talking (and i would always ask if they're available before I say anything) makes me feel like posting here would be a better option.

I'm sorry. At the start, in May... It seemed ridiculous that we wont be talking in December. Now that it's december.... I'm lost...

I'm sorry I sound whiny... I dont intend to affect anyone's mood.

 

12/03/2017 11:53 am  #2


Re: How to keep positive after long NC period?

Do you keep living in the end and as if your wish is already fullfilled? That is what I struggle with and I have communication from my person, sometimes. I don't know how to believe he's mine for such a long time, because nothing seems to happen other then getting texts sometimes. I feel lost too, you are not alone.

 

12/03/2017 2:38 pm  #3


Re: How to keep positive after long NC period?

I’ve probabely been on this self love train all day but I think self love is key! I think thinking about our exes should bring us joy and happiness and not fear and doubt and sadness. Like I said in another post I think getting rid of any resentments and forgiving our exes is big in removing some of the obstacles we put in front of ourselves and that actually prevent ourselves from manifesting. Like if we think our ex never texts us then that’s exactly what’s going to happen. I think focusing on ourselves and why we love ourselves in important. And just dedicating time each day to exploring ourselves and being in wonder that we are creators and part of this wonderful amazing universe! And just telling that little fear voice that they are wrong and I decide what happens


“Once you make a decision, the universe conspires to make it happen.” 
 

12/03/2017 2:46 pm  #4


Re: How to keep positive after long NC period?

I agree with kiba


I know a lot of people around here aren’t fans of Agnes anymore.   But she makes great points about how self love is key.  And that we do it for ourselves and not the person we are attracting. 

I can see her point.  When you’re so in love with yourself and so happy about your life. You don’t really have time to think about what they’re doing       Also having faith in the universe is key.

 

12/03/2017 5:25 pm  #5


Re: How to keep positive after long NC period?

Kiba101 wrote:

I’ve probabely been on this self love train all day but I think self love is key! I think thinking about our exes should bring us joy and happiness and not fear and doubt and sadness. Like I said in another post I think getting rid of any resentments and forgiving our exes is big in removing some of the obstacles we put in front of ourselves and that actually prevent ourselves from manifesting. Like if we think our ex never texts us then that’s exactly what’s going to happen. I think focusing on ourselves and why we love ourselves in important. And just dedicating time each day to exploring ourselves and being in wonder that we are creators and part of this wonderful amazing universe! And just telling that little fear voice that they are wrong and I decide what happens

Thank you.

But how do you hold positive if in these past 6 months there WERE times you believed he would text you, but he never did. How do you still believe he is going to?

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12/03/2017 6:16 pm  #6


Re: How to keep positive after long NC period?

I think too much emphasis is put on believing he will text or calls etc.. and that’s what I had been hung up on like there were days like i felt like he was going to text and that was the problem. We shouldn’t expect these things to happen since that puts us in that wanting mode. Instead that acting as if we already have them. I think visualizations of being in that state after we are together are powerful. Like we should still think about them but in a loving matter and as if they are already here, And we don’t have to be positive 24/7 we are human we are allowed to feel sad, scared etc but when those feelings arise we need to tell them that we are creators and there’s nothing to worry about. And  it’s ok to cry! But definitely doing self love work is the best! I’ve completely transformed my life this month, everyday I wake up meditate on loving myself and do “I am affirmations” at 5:30 and then go to the gym for an hour and while working out I continue to do positive affirmations in my head then come back and eat breakfast and go to work and throughout the day just consciously work on breaking my cycle of negative thoughts. My coworker at a staff meeting actually gave everyone bracelets and said that whenever you have a negative thought snap it or change the bracelet to the other hand. And it just makes me so much more aware when I’m complaining or being negative. But after work I usually come home and eat dinner and maybe watch a movie or read and then spend an hour to 2 hours meditating, doing self love work and visualizing. And I make sure I am eating healthy, drinking enough water, getting enough sleep. (Of course I squeeze in fun and enjoying life!) And I’ve noticed big changes! Coworkers who were mean are all of a sudden nice, my bosses are giving me praise, random people are doing kind things for me, an issue with my landlord was suddenly resolved when before I had lost hope and things just are falling into place. And I’ve only begun making these changes the past 3 weeks or so. I’m creating the me I want to be and I’m not worried when my love is coming back since I know the universe will deliver when the time is right!

Last edited by Kiba101 (12/03/2017 9:19 pm)


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