Celly,

Please don't give up. I have been broken up with my ex since June and stopped communicating first week of September. I only just started learning about LOA recently. To this day I still miss her and want her back. I know it's hard to do LOA to get your ex back but you can do it! Lets do it together!

Last edited by RTCx0615 (11/26/2017 9:28 pm)

Celly wrote:

Hello guys,
I am close to giving up my desire. It's been nine months now without my guy. We were never in a serious relationship, because he didn't wanted to. We had this going on for seven months. I didn't cared at first that he didn't wanted a relationship because he showed me how he cared about me and communicated with me everyday, behaved like a boyfriend. Everything was a relationship except for the title relationship. I really never loved someone so deeply, I cry as I'm typing this, remembering how we used to talk until three in the morning. The first months I was really depressed. Some day I decided I have to try bringing him back with loa or just leave it. I felt better and better. I use the techniques and self love everyday. Sometimes I get texts from him, but nothing more. Maybe I should just forget him for my own good? I am at a point where it's okay to live without him as long as I don't think of him, if I would find another guy I like I would even date again. Even if I know I'll never love someone as that. But if you do self love, live in the end and everything, there should be results? There are so many people who got results with that.

Celly,

Your situation is almost the same as mine... Except mine has a complication of distance coming into it as well. Hey, at least you managed to get texts from him and trust me... That's a ******* huge step.

He told me to move on in march but i tried to keep in touch until may. I've been in no contact with him since 5th June.... And I still believe we would be fine. Eventhough everything says otherwise... And eventhough I've been in a bad place.

You're so far ahead of many of us. Give up only when you don't want him anymore. Don't give up to settle for something else.

Hi Celly, 

I'm so sorry to hear you are having a tough time, we all at one point have been there. What are your actions when you are trying to live your life while, he is back, what is the new you he is going to see when he is back? A point to note would be, you are not offering split energy as well. 

Monitor your thoughts, it will happen

Hi!

I don't know if it will help you, but I read in a Neville Goddart book that no desire is wrong because it's god talking to you, and funily enough the same day I found this story on the secret website:

https://www.thesecret.tv/stories/dont-stop/

I don't know if this will help you but, just in case have a good read!

You can do it! I went months without my ex with not one bit of contact and attracted him back with loa, but messed up up with my own doubts and insecurities! Now I’m trying to manifest him back again and this time I’m focusing on the self love aspect. And more importantly forgiving myself. I think it’s so important that we let go of any negative feelings we have about our exes and to not dwell. Since I think this resentment blocks us from manifesting our ex back. I definitely think it’s important to take a day and really examine how you truly feel about your ex. For example myself when I did this I was like I love him but wait I can’t believe he didn’t fight harder to keep me, that he just let our relationship go, he doesn’t even text me etc.. and I had those resentments. But I have chosen to let this go and forgive not only him but myself. And instead we should focus on only the positive things you love about your ex. Since this positive energy is what will attract him back! But good luck and you can do it!