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Doubts
Guys, I got my ex back, but I have so many doubts creeping in all the time. Like I really don't like this feeling of insecurity and I just want to go back to feeling really secure about it all. What am I supposed to do?
- Bugg88
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Re: Doubts
Stop calling them an ex first of all! You and your love are together again! 😍
My advice would be to keep visualizing your relationship with your love as happy, committed and healthy. Start scripting out the days as if they have already happened. Everytime you think about your relationship smile and send it love.
Maybe it would also help if you try doing some self love meditations or affirmations so you can keep your vibration up. Remember, you create your reality so you can make it wonderful!!
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Re: Doubts
Bugg88 wrote:
Stop calling them an ex first of all! You and your love are together again! 😍
My advice would be to keep visualizing your relationship with your love as happy, committed and healthy. Start scripting out the days as if they have already happened. Everytime you think about your relationship smile and send it love.
Maybe it would also help if you try doing some self love meditations or affirmations so you can keep your vibration up. Remember, you create your reality so you can make it wonderful!!
But how do I stop this fear of that it might end again?
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Thread Starter- Cynthia
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Re: Doubts
Stop calling them an ex first of all! You and your love are together again! 😍
My advice would be to keep visualizing your relationship with your love as happy, committed and healthy. Start scripting out the days as if they have already happened. Everytime you think about your relationship smile and send it love.
Maybe it would also help if you try doing some self love meditations or affirmations so you can keep your vibration up. Remember, you create your reality so you can make it wonderful!!
This is a very good answer. I agree completely.
The first man to raise a fist is the man who has run out of ideas.
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Re: Doubts
Stop calling them an ex first of all! You and your love are together again! 😍
My advice would be to keep visualizing your relationship with your love as happy, committed and healthy. Start scripting out the days as if they have already happened. Everytime you think about your relationship smile and send it love.
Maybe it would also help if you try doing some self love meditations or affirmations so you can keep your vibration up. Remember, you create your reality so you can make it wonderful!!But how do I stop this fear of that it might end again?
That’s not a fact, it’s just a fear. Everytime you get one of those thoughts write out some reasons why that is not true.
Example:
Bob is going to leave me
Reason it’s not true:
That’s ridiculous, I’m just afraid that Bob is going to leave me, there is nothing real leading me to believe that this will happen
Bob came back to me because he loves me and missed me
Our relationship is stronger than ever because we both have grown and learned from our mistakes
Bob loves me because we have so much fun together
I am the best woman for Bob because...
We are a great together because...
It really does work when you do it consistently. Pretty soon those fears will seem silly
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Re: Doubts
Stop calling them an ex first of all! You and your love are together again! 😍
My advice would be to keep visualizing your relationship with your love as happy, committed and healthy. Start scripting out the days as if they have already happened. Everytime you think about your relationship smile and send it love.
Maybe it would also help if you try doing some self love meditations or affirmations so you can keep your vibration up. Remember, you create your reality so you can make it wonderful!!But how do I stop this fear of that it might end again?
That’s not a fact, it’s just a fear. Everytime you get one of those thoughts write out some reasons why that is not true.
Example:
Bob is going to leave me
Reason it’s not true:
That’s ridiculous, I’m just afraid that Bob is going to leave me, there is nothing real leading me to believe that this will happen
Bob came back to me because he loves me and missed me
Our relationship is stronger than ever because we both have grown and learned from our mistakes
Bob loves me because we have so much fun together
I am the best woman for Bob because...
We are a great together because...
It really does work when you do it consistently. Pretty soon those fears will seem silly
Ugh...it just keeps going and coming back and I have a bunch of "what ifs" in my head...Will this manifest? I am also scared it will manifest due to me thinking about it, like him cheating or leaving again etc.
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Thread Starter- Gratitude21
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Re: Doubts
Your faith can remove mountains and your doubts can create them!
You have to have faith that it will work out, that it’ll be the best relationship ever. If you are doubting then it means that your confidence on yourself is low. And just as others have advised you, you need to do a lot of self love affirmations and strengthen your own belief in you first. And the belief that your relationship will work out will come automatically.
You need to believe that you are the best person for your man. And trust that you are!
Living in gratitude, loving yourself, asking and let go! Trust the process!
Veronica Isles LOA coach veronicaislescoaching.com