Cynthia wrote:

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

If you know someone is playing games with you would you just call them out on it and tell them not to bother contacting you unless they meant it? I would now but in the past I caused myself so much grief by not seeking clarity, or making it for myself, and beating myself up because I felt I couldn't be worthy or they wouldn't play games.

 
I would now, and I have done. I don't have time for that nonsense any more, not that I ever did, especially since I have much higher self esteem now.

Same with me. We are just in the friend zone anyway and I don' have expectations so it doesn't get to me. I just go on with my day and don't build all my hopes around this person texting me and stuff. He's a lot younger than me and obviously not the most mature so I don't take it personally, I have may different friends that all serve different purpose to me.