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When is it gonna show up?!
Hello!
I posted a thread on the lanie forum a while ago, but I thought I would post one here also because I like getting different opinions and tips from as many loa people as possible 
basically, I am trying to attract an ex back who didn't wanted to commit. We both really liked each other but eventually I got really scared of never getting what I want from him and his commitment issues and fear got in the way and I could not do anything. I was heartbroken for months until I discovered loa. We agreed to stay friends but we only texted sometimes. After I started with loa I became myself again and he started texting more and I actually manifested a meeting. So I had some success and it felt really cool to know: I did this! But the thing is I want him to be interested in me again as a women obviously as I want a relationship again. He is friendly and nice but it is sporadically and platonic. Now many people said it just takes time to manifest and it's coming in baby steps? Any opinions on that?
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Re: When is it gonna show up?!
It sounds completely opposite but try not to think about when it shows up
From all the manifestations either I’ve had or others. I realized that it usually happens when you aren’t thinking too much about it. And it just randomly pops up
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Thank you!
That is the thing though which bothers me I think haha, because most of the time I am not thinking about when it is gonna show up. I mostly let go and then I am like: well.. shouldn't it be here then
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Re: When is it gonna show up?!
Dan2015 wrote:
It sounds completely opposite but try not to think about when it shows up
From all the manifestations either I’ve had or others. I realized that it usually happens when you aren’t thinking too much about it. And it just randomly pops up
Also when you have 0 expectations
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Re: When is it gonna show up?!
It sounds completely opposite but try not to think about when it shows up
From all the manifestations either I’ve had or others. I realized that it usually happens when you aren’t thinking too much about it. And it just randomly pops upAlso when you have 0 expectations
Yup. Good point. Either have 0 expectations or a STRONG confidence in what your expecting helps
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Re: When is it gonna show up?!
It sounds completely opposite but try not to think about when it shows up
From all the manifestations either I’ve had or others. I realized that it usually happens when you aren’t thinking too much about it. And it just randomly pops upAlso when you have 0 expectations
Yup. Good point. Either have 0 expectations or a STRONG confidence in what your expecting helps
Yups lol that too
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I am really confident that it's gonna happen. Most of the time I really let go and just smile when I think about it and am really like: he misses me, he wants me back (obviously I only think these things and not tell them to people haha) but yeah. I have this feeling of, he is already mine. That is why I'm wondering. I basically did everything you should for it to come in your physical reality
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Re: When is it gonna show up?!
I am really confident that it's gonna happen. Most of the time I really let go and just smile when I think about it and am really like: he misses me, he wants me back (obviously I only think these things and not tell them to people haha) but yeah. I have this feeling of, he is already mine. That is why I'm wondering. I basically did everything you should for it to come in your physical reality
One of my exes literally popped back into my life the same day I decided "to hell with you. I don't need you". Text me that night apologising and said he wanted me back. Once you aren't obsessed with the outcome the magic happens!
It Is Not What Happens To You, It Is How You Respond To It.
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Re: When is it gonna show up?!
I am really confident that it's gonna happen. Most of the time I really let go and just smile when I think about it and am really like: he misses me, he wants me back (obviously I only think these things and not tell them to people haha) but yeah. I have this feeling of, he is already mine. That is why I'm wondering. I basically did everything you should for it to come in your physical reality
One of my exes literally popped back into my life the same day I decided "to hell with you. I don't need you". Text me that night apologising and said he wanted me back. Once you aren't obsessed with the outcome the magic happens!
Yup 😊
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Really? That's great, did you came back together then?
I guess that's where different people say different things though. Some say when you let go of the wish it won't manifest because you basically let go of everything and you only need to let go of the negative emotions and the outcome. So I guess you still wanted him but you were okay even to let him go?
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