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YesIWILL wrote:
Selfloveiskey wrote:
Ok well I would think positive my guy messages me sometimes a whole day or two later. I even deleted his number and know I'm gonna get it back cause he's texting me now . It's how you feel if you expect she won't write back she won't. Also what did you say? Did it come across as needy?
Rose for a Soul emailed me saying she knows that she'd be sending me a birthday wish. I expected it. It never happened. When I tried texting her last time, I expected a response. It never came... And I'm sure it did. I just want her back. I'd do anything in the entire universe.... I just miss being with her so much, I can't even bare it.
What did you say to her? And there is expecting it and needing it it's important to know he difference . I know when I was wanting a text I thought I expected it but I was really checking like "please be there " needy. Now he messages me and that is because I focused on me and now he has messaged that he missed me because I focus on me and not him. We all get caught up in that but really focus on you I'm not really convinced you are and I have and sometimes still do do that. So please be honest with yourself
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Selfloveiskey wrote:
YesIWILL wrote:
Selfloveiskey wrote:
Ok well I would think positive my guy messages me sometimes a whole day or two later. I even deleted his number and know I'm gonna get it back cause he's texting me now . It's how you feel if you expect she won't write back she won't. Also what did you say? Did it come across as needy?
Rose for a Soul emailed me saying she knows that she'd be sending me a birthday wish. I expected it. It never happened. When I tried texting her last time, I expected a response. It never came... And I'm sure it did. I just want her back. I'd do anything in the entire universe.... I just miss being with her so much, I can't even bare it.
What did you say to her? And there is expecting it and needing it it's important to know he difference . I know when I was wanting a text I thought I expected it but I was really checking like "please be there " needy. Now he messages me and that is because I focused on me and now he has messaged that he missed me because I focus on me and not him. We all get caught up in that but really focus on you I'm not really convinced you are and I have and sometimes still do do that. So please be honest with yourself
I texted her that I miss her and I hope she's doing well. So I'm sure it came across as needy. I just want to know she's coming back. I want to be sure of it. Even though most days I feel great, I just never feel full without her. My energy can be super high and I can be feeling amazing! ... but it's just not... home... without her. I want to believe I can be back with her.
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I really would not tell her you miss her.
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PrettyFlamingo wrote:
I really would not tell her you miss her.
Yeah, I thought about that after I sent it.
I just want her back in my life. How can I manifest something that seems so far from reality?
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You said, I think, she's blocked you on various platforms? Has she blocked your mobile number because if so she won't be getting the messages anyway.
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YesIWILL wrote:
Selfloveiskey wrote:
YesIWILL wrote:
Rose for a Soul emailed me saying she knows that she'd be sending me a birthday wish. I expected it. It never happened. When I tried texting her last time, I expected a response. It never came... And I'm sure it did. I just want her back. I'd do anything in the entire universe.... I just miss being with her so much, I can't even bare it.What did you say to her? And there is expecting it and needing it it's important to know he difference . I know when I was wanting a text I thought I expected it but I was really checking like "please be there " needy. Now he messages me and that is because I focused on me and now he has messaged that he missed me because I focus on me and not him. We all get caught up in that but really focus on you I'm not really convinced you are and I have and sometimes still do do that. So please be honest with yourself
I texted her that I miss her and I hope she's doing well. So I'm sure it came across as needy. I just want to know she's coming back. I want to be sure of it. Even though most days I feel great, I just never feel full without her. My energy can be super high and I can be feeling amazing! ... but it's just not... home... without her. I want to believe I can be back with her.
Ok this is why you are getting this. You are being needy and when Rose for the Soul told you that she was basically reading off your vibe if she is like a psychic which propels vibes can change. And we all have days feeling great but it doesn't always happen like that day it takes time sometimes especially if you have been down for awhile. You need to be happy and content with YOU without expecting anything from her . Trust me that works but you don't do it for that you do it to feel good . I feel like you do thinks with the expectation that it will bring her back faster that's not how it works. Forgive yourself for sending the message to her and don't dwell on it and now I want you to read "love yourself like your life depends on it " or any book like that and really follow it. I swear to you you will feel better that it won't matter to you what she does . And that is when things start happening but don't do this because of that that is why I'm hesitant to tell you it works because you may go in for the wrong reasons and then expect fast results and say why isn't this working. And it won't if you do that because you aren't focusing on you which is the purpose of the book.
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YesIWILL wrote:
Selfloveiskey wrote:
What did you say to her? And there is expecting it and needing it it's important to know he difference . I know when I was wanting a text I thought I expected it but I was really checking like "please be there " needy. Now he messages me and that is because I focused on me and now he has messaged that he missed me because I focus on me and not him. We all get caught up in that but really focus on you I'm not really convinced you are and I have and sometimes still do do that. So please be honest with yourselfI texted her that I miss her and I hope she's doing well. So I'm sure it came across as needy. I just want to know she's coming back. I want to be sure of it. Even though most days I feel great, I just never feel full without her. My energy can be super high and I can be feeling amazing! ... but it's just not... home... without her. I want to believe I can be back with her.
Ok this is why you are getting this. You are being needy and when Rose for the Soul told you that she was basically reading off your vibe if she is like a psychic which propels vibes can change. And we all have days feeling great but it doesn't always happen like that day it takes time sometimes especially if you have been down for awhile. You need to be happy and content with YOU without expecting anything from her . Trust me that works but you don't do it for that you do it to feel good . I feel like you do thinks with the expectation that it will bring her back faster that's not how it works. Forgive yourself for sending the message to her and don't dwell on it and now I want you to read "love yourself like your life depends on it " or any book like that and really follow it. I swear to you you will feel better that it won't matter to you what she does . And that is when things start happening but don't do this because of that that is why I'm hesitant to tell you it works because you may go in for the wrong reasons and then expect fast results and say why isn't this working. And it won't if you do that because you aren't focusing on you which is the purpose of the book.
I mean, I am content with everything most days. I just have my down days remembering her, I guess... most days she's out of sight, out of mind... Most days, I'm fantastic... I just want my miracle already. I want it to be my turn...
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It's all about you not her, and getting content with a fabulous life independent of her.
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PrettyFlamingo wrote:
It's all about you not her, and getting content with a fabulous life independent of her.
I gotta believe it's possible to get her back. Even while in a good mood, I have to believe that it's possible in the first place. I don't know how to get there. :/
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But what are you going to do with yourself and your life whilst you're in the process of learning to believe you can have a brand new relationship with her?