Lifesagas wrote:

I didn't say those things you quoted. But here we are again...sigh

I wish you the best and hope things work out for you. I look forward to you coming back with your success story and don't think you'll post here inbetween? because you know it's going to work as you have done for so long on here so you don't need it huh?

I do not agree with the light you are painting me under. All because I don't agree with you about how you feel about me or about the ability to manifest a relationship with someone you want. You once told me you thought I could get him back I believe and that I just needed to keep my distance and I agree wit you on that one. That I got what you were saying. I understood that being too involved was not good for me and I needed to work in my self and so I have been . And it so happens I m manifesting stuff that involves him contacting me.
I will post on others stuff but no I'm not gonna ask anyone's opinion on it and the truth is I actually realized I don't need to thanks to you so thank you. I have been doing and feeling really good for awhile now. We all have different beliefs some belief you can have a new better relationship with the specific person that they can treat you better etc like me and some don't and believe we should get someone else like you. So we will disagree. I will post my success story though.

I'm not sure what you are trying to manifest but hope it goes well for you as well.

Lifesagas wrote:

Good, I'm glad you won't post about him because it's frustrating for people who you keep asking for help to keep trying to give it and you not wanting it.

And that's okay as long as you said it stops now so people don't keep going around in circles giving the same advice while you carry on wasting years over it. That was my only concern.

And yes I think you could get a relationship with him, I do. But not when you are waiting for it and he knows he can do exactly what he wants, treat you badly, have GFs while he doesn't want to be with you and still have you waiting as a 'back up'.

He's been a little bit unsettled recently as your attitude has changed so his ego was triggered a bit but you soothed that, made it clear you're not really dating, you want to know he's unhappy with his GF, he can come to you whenever he needs to talk and you still want to talk to him as you'd rather 'vent' to him than anyone else.

He knows he's still hugely important to you and you want time with him even though he's got a GF and he knows you're in love with him. You'll enjoy some little crumbs of attention.

He's happy with that, gets to have good times with his GF and still have his ego stroked that you love him and are waiting for him.

When you won't do that because you really know you deserve more - he might genuinely freak out, think he's losing you and do whatever it takes to be with you.

That's not even LOA - it's basic Psychology and I hope you get it.

You aren't the end all say around here . I can post whatever I want you just don't have to read it. And I've gotten plenty of messages from people saying I've improved and they like my progress. I barely asked for opinions except for this one time. You don't know me and don't pretend to. How many times do I have to tell you I don't reach out and if he really felt I was stroking his ego he wouldn't be reaching out to me and he wouldn't be calling me hasty and saying I'm ignoring him. And from what I'm gathering your definition of self love is to date someone else? THTe whole purpose of self love is so you don't rely on other people to give you love and I know I don't rely on him to give me that . Please stop commenting on my posts all you are doing is frustrating me when I know the progress I have made and you do not. No more comments

Btw I didn't make it clear I wasn't dating all he knows is I had two dates with the other guy and I was going on another . I didn't tell him it didn't work. Right now he is under the impression that I could be with this guy. That's it. I didn't text him about the date didn't update him nothing so I didn't soothe his ego.

Last edited by Selfloveiskey (9/25/2017 11:36 am)

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

Lifesagas wrote:

I didn't say those things you quoted. But here we are again...sigh

I wish you the best and hope things work out for you. I look forward to you coming back with your success story and don't think you'll post here inbetween? because you know it's going to work as you have done for so long on here so you don't need it huh?

I've read your posts and can't see anywhere where you said go out with other guys or forget him. I think your angle was overanalysing everything the guy said.

Gosh! I read the whole thread. And to be honest, I think Selfloveiskey is taking it in a completely different path than what Lifeagas meant. In all her posts lifeagas only meant well for her. I'm not sure why Selflove got offended and defensive. I have spent about a month in this forum and have felt very good since. I would just request Selfloveiskey to relax and reread the first post from lifeagas. It's in her favour not against what she is doing. I think people here on this forum really mean well for each other. Let's keep it to that. No one is against you Selfloveiskey, reading the thread I only got good vibes from what lifeagas wrote. Read again when you are calm. Loads of love to you.

Selfloveiskey wrote:

I got frustrated because I know what's right for me and she is assuming I'm the same and I'm not I don't like when other people claim to know your progress better then you know your own . I know I have made progress and u know what works for me . That set me off also set me off is saying most of my posts are still asking for opinions and it's not nearly as much now. But I have learned today that I just need to come here and lift my vibe by talking about other people's things not mine as this made me feel lower in vibration. What I n doing us working for me and I know I feel different that's that' I be ask for the comments on this post to be disabled I should have never asked on the first place my mistake so sorry for the negative aspect of this thread it will be removed or disabled .

I don't think anybody is doubting your progress. And you don't have to prove it to anyone here but just to yourself. Just trust that everyone here is going through a similar situation in their lives and they all are here to help each other. Don't do any such thing as deleting the posts or something. Just relax and let it be. Take care.