YesIWILL wrote:

LearningToDetach wrote:

YesIWILL wrote:

Mine's been gone for about 3 years lol. No reaching out, no unblocking, complete silence and probably isn't thinking about me. 3 months is literally nothing. Stay positive.

From when we know each other until he said to move on was about 8 months. So 3 months of silece does seem a lot to me. But yeah it's nothing once he's back. I'll use this time to work on myself and lose some weight -.-

How are you doing?

Hang in there, okay? It'll get better, I promise!!

And I'm doing horribly. But it's okay. I'm just sitting here playing Zelda right now, and binging RayWilliamJohnson videos. 

I've just started watchinf Friends (yes i'm anout 20 years late) but damn it makes me laugh so much haha.

Thank you. I will. I just read some success story so it's helping me.

You too hang in there, and thank you.

YesIWILL wrote:

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

Is "doing horribly" all in relation to the woman? Because other stuff in life must be ok surely? Work for example?

Um... hmm.... a LOT due to that, but in total? Just life. Work's sucking, not taking classes, I feel like I'm hit a plateau in life that I'll never get out of, I just feel unworthy of everyone. I have no idea why. So it's kind of all-around. OH well.

@L2D look at Zion's success story. I mean, damn. It's really one of the only thing that gives me hope these days  It's inspiring!

Whose story is that I would just like to read it. Can you link it?  You really need self love I highly recommend love yourself like your life depends on it. It helps I have done it for a week and it has really brought me back up. I really want to keep going with it because I just want to rely on me myself and I for true happiness. My guy is a contributing factor buuut it's mainly me. It all begins with self love i really think if you practice this your life will change miracles happen etc but most importantly you are already happy

YesIWILL wrote:

Selfloveiskey wrote:

YesIWILL wrote:

Um... hmm.... a LOT due to that, but in total? Just life. Work's sucking, not taking classes, I feel like I'm hit a plateau in life that I'll never get out of, I just feel unworthy of everyone. I have no idea why. So it's kind of all-around. OH well.

@L2D look at Zion's success story. I mean, damn. It's really one of the only thing that gives me hope these days  It's inspiring!

Whose story is that I would just like to read it. Can you link it? You really need self love I highly recommend love yourself like your life depends on it. It helps I have done it for a week and it has really brought me back up. I really want to keep going with it because I just want to rely on me myself and I for true happiness. My guy is a contributing factor buuut it's mainly me. It all begins with self love i really think if you practice this your life will change miracles happen etc but most importantly you are already happy

I'll try to find it. Until then, I'll just post a tl;dr (I was in communication with her for a while before then, and until then. She told me while I was at work and I was BLOWN AWAY)

So, TL;DR:

Dude was acting dumb, blocked her everywhere (probably except phone/text, however he wouldn't answer when she'd try texting before, so she decided to work on herself and have a good time in her life), she focused on herself and affirmations and whatnot (all the LoA stuff) for over 8 months, and she thought, "I want to do something for myself" and signed up for dance classes. Long story short, she was supposed to be going to the one on Tuesdays and for some specific reason, she ended up doing the one on Fridays, which was was pretty much a "just because" reasoning, I believe... I can't remember why that one happened when she wanted the tuesday ones. Anyway, she was in such a great place, and decided she'd message the guy. So she did. And they were just catching up, casually. I think she asked something like, "What are your plans for this day?" or something. And he said, "Oh I can't hang out then... I have something at X time, on Friday"... And she asked him what it was. That's right. It was the dance class. The same exact time, too. It wasn't even a well-known thing. She just googled "dance classes in my country" and bam. So had she chosen the Tuesday classes, this wouldn't have happened. Also, what are the odds? With such an incredibly little-known class, probably not advertised at all. So they're now dating.

I'll try to find her link if it's still up here.

(And Zion, if you decided to delete your story and don't want it shared anymore, I'll delete this post).

But yeah, it was INCREDIBLY unlikely. And it just happened. 

 

Wow I would love to see it that sounds great!