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    9/03/2017 3:00 am  #1

    LearningToDetach
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    Long period of NC?

    Hi everyone,

    Is it weird to believe it will all work out even after more than 3 months of no contact and being oceans apart?

    Logically speaking, it doesn't make sense. I dont know what's going on in the reality, but i still believe he will come back and we will see each other at the new years.

    But i have been believing that since day one of no contact, and of course thrre has been nothing. I have stopped all visualisation and affirmations for a while now.

    And of course you can tell from my message here that i definitely have doubt, otherwise why should I post here. But currently i'm at an extremely low points. I do feel grateful for all the time I had with him, that both of us are still alive and healthy. I'm grateful he's happy... I'm grateful we're still connected, that he hasnt cut me off from anywhere and is constantly checking on me. I give thanks for all these daily.

    I'm usually fine all the time except right before I sleep when i used to visualise.

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    9/03/2017 9:00 am  #2

    happygirl97
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    Re: Long period of NC?

    No its not weird.
    I had ex boyfriends coming back after years! So thats definitely possible!

    She believed she could, so she did.
     

    9/04/2017 5:13 am  #3

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    Re: Long period of NC?

    Thank you.

    I have so much doubt in me and i wish there were ways to erase all these stubbornness. The doubt always come with a whole package of sad thoughts...

    I do believe he will come back. Why do i have all these doubts?

    Thank you for replying.

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    9/04/2017 7:35 pm  #4

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    Re: Long period of NC?

    LearningToDetach wrote:

    Thank you.

    I have so much doubt in me and i wish there were ways to erase all these stubbornness. The doubt always come with a whole package of sad thoughts...

    I do believe he will come back. Why do i have all these doubts?

    Thank you for replying.

    Mine's been gone for about 3 years lol. No reaching out, no unblocking, complete silence and probably isn't thinking about me. 3 months is literally nothing. Stay positive.

     

    9/04/2017 8:04 pm  #5

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    Re: Long period of NC?

    I've had people come back into my life who I hadn't spoken to in many years, once I let go of all resentment towards them they started crawling out the woodwork. 

    It Is Not What Happens To You, It Is How You Respond To It. 
     

    9/04/2017 9:43 pm  #6

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    Staceylouuu91x wrote:

    I've had people come back into my life who I hadn't spoken to in many years, once I let go of all resentment towards them they started crawling out the woodwork. 

    Thank you ..

    I have got no resentment towards him. I guess it's just somewhere deep in me that's blocking all these.

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    9/04/2017 9:52 pm  #7

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    Re: Long period of NC?

    LearningToDetach wrote:

    Staceylouuu91x wrote:

    I've had people come back into my life who I hadn't spoken to in many years, once I let go of all resentment towards them they started crawling out the woodwork. 

    Thank you ..

    I have got no resentment towards him. I guess it's just somewhere deep in me that's blocking all these.

    I didn't know I used to harbour the bad feeling towards these people until I went to therapy and realised that most of my self-esteem issues stemmed back to two of my boyfriends who honestly could have treated me but at the same time I should have left. 

    I'm not saying this is necessarily your situation, just throwing it into the mix on the off chance it could be of some help to you. 
     

    It Is Not What Happens To You, It Is How You Respond To It. 
     

    9/05/2017 12:16 am  #8

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    Staceylouuu91x wrote:

    LearningToDetach wrote:

    Staceylouuu91x wrote:

    I've had people come back into my life who I hadn't spoken to in many years, once I let go of all resentment towards them they started crawling out the woodwork. 

    Thank you ..

    I have got no resentment towards him. I guess it's just somewhere deep in me that's blocking all these.

    I didn't know I used to harbour the bad feeling towards these people until I went to therapy and realised that most of my self-esteem issues stemmed back to two of my boyfriends who honestly could have treated me but at the same time I should have left. 

    I'm not saying this is necessarily your situation, just throwing it into the mix on the off chance it could be of some help to you. 
     

    I doubt so. I havent had a boyfriend. My self-esteem issue probably comes from surrounding + my own family. I'm fine about myself so idk why the others arent.

    Thanks for sharing.

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    9/05/2017 12:18 am  #9

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    YesIWILL wrote:

    LearningToDetach wrote:

    Thank you.

    I have so much doubt in me and i wish there were ways to erase all these stubbornness. The doubt always come with a whole package of sad thoughts...

    I do believe he will come back. Why do i have all these doubts?

    Thank you for replying.

    Mine's been gone for about 3 years lol. No reaching out, no unblocking, complete silence and probably isn't thinking about me. 3 months is literally nothing. Stay positive.

    From when we know each other until he said to move on was about 8 months. So 3 months of silece does seem a lot to me. But yeah it's nothing once he's back. I'll use this time to work on myself and lose some weight -.-

    How are you doing?

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    9/05/2017 12:54 am  #10

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    Re: Long period of NC?

    LearningToDetach wrote:

    YesIWILL wrote:

    LearningToDetach wrote:

    Thank you.

    I have so much doubt in me and i wish there were ways to erase all these stubbornness. The doubt always come with a whole package of sad thoughts...

    I do believe he will come back. Why do i have all these doubts?

    Thank you for replying.

    Mine's been gone for about 3 years lol. No reaching out, no unblocking, complete silence and probably isn't thinking about me. 3 months is literally nothing. Stay positive.

    From when we know each other until he said to move on was about 8 months. So 3 months of silece does seem a lot to me. But yeah it's nothing once he's back. I'll use this time to work on myself and lose some weight -.-

    How are you doing?

    Hang in there, okay? It'll get better, I promise!!

    And I'm doing horribly. But it's okay. I'm just sitting here playing Zelda right now, and binging RayWilliamJohnson videos. 

     

     

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