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- Debbie
- Warrior
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Re: Is it good to believe that he changed for me?
I agree with the other comments here, but I'd like to add that one important thing you need to concentrate on is that you never felt that he played you. While you were a couple your instincts told you that he was faithful. That is vital to the relationship that you will have with him when you reattract him back, so hang on to that kind of mindset and keep it for the future.
- Blessedck
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- Registered: 6/26/2015
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Re: Is it good to believe that he changed for me?
Cheer wrote:
Thanks for asking this question, because I know exactly what you mean. Cherished has once again cleared it up with her beautiful wise words.
I get the negative statements about my guy from close friends and I know they mean well, but I just ignore it now. And do you know what, It's so true what Cherished said about people being a reflection of how you feel and your fears, because when I'm feeling good, friends will never say such statements. It's only when I feel down and insecure that they just blurt these words out.
So here's to feeling wonderful and writing a great script. You're doing really well Blessedck
Thank you so much for Cheer for sharing your own experience and the kind words! You're absolutely correct! Thanks!
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Thread Starter- Blessedck
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Re: Is it good to believe that he changed for me?
I agree with the other comments here, but I'd like to add that one important thing you need to concentrate on is that you never felt that he played you. While you were a couple your instincts told you that he was faithful. That is vital to the relationship that you will have with him when you reattract him back, so hang on to that kind of mindset and keep it for the future.
Debbie, thank you so much for pointing that out! I'm definitely going to hold onto that mindset! Thanks so much!
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