Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum » Can the universe decide for you?

Selfloveiskey · 8/24/2017 12:16 pm

I emailed veronica because lord knows I need it. I've been a yo yo currently belief is loa isn't real. It seems like he universe decides for me cause my wants when it comes to romance go out the window..I have done a lot felt a lot and I'm depleated . I feel sad lonely and just I feel crazy trying to get myself in a positive place . I literally want to feel nothing and have things work out just by sitting here cause I'm so tired I feel like I'm going crazy like I am crazy and that I m being forced to move on or wait forever like as an old cat lady. Has anyone ever felt like they were going mad?

My heart literally feels broken inknow self love is key but damn it I am a great catch I deserve an amazing life but I am too tired emotionally and mentally to raise my vibes etc ...I have done a lot I have sent every intention to the universe about what I want in all aspects of life for a long awhile now. Romance is very important to me I love relationships companionship. So that is why it hurts much much more then anything. There thought of dating others ( I tried) I don't want to because there is no reason why I shouldn't have my guy back why should I settle? But it feels like the universe is deciding for me. Reading everyone s success stori s just isn't as helpful anymore when you need to see it first hand....

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Stacey · 8/24/2017 12:48 pm

The universe doesn't choose for you, it just responds to what you're putting out. How recent was the breakup? You might still be hurting from it and need some time to recover from it.

Selfloveiskey · 8/24/2017 12:55 pm

Staceylouuu91x wrote:
The universe doesn't choose for you, it just responds to what you're putting out. How recent was the breakup? You might still be hurting from it and need some time to recover from it.

We were together 4 years and then broke up 4 years ago and I managed to get him back but I was desperate then broke up in 2014 . Then in early 2015 heard he was with someone else I discovered loa used it to get him back only got him single and we were friends with benefits for 2 years always I was so close and then nothing . That was my mistake because I didn't do the love part respect myself enough to be in a relationship not that. Anyway in may he gets really close to me backs off and thenstsrts dating this new girl ever since. I have been doing all sorts of things and as of recent really felt living in the now seemed like I was getting signs but I'm just so tired I have waited so long for a success story with me on this...I'm just so tired and I have done what I did the last time this happened and nothing. He did like my profile pic last weekend, he was nice to me and told me that " he and some friends should beat the **** out of the guy who was mean to me on my date" he also called to make sure I got him ok but all our friends do that . So some good things but still I'm just so tired and I just want him to be single at the very least. I stopped doing the rubbing out technique because it did nothing it doesn't work.

Sorry to blow up the messages boards I'm just so stuck and sad and just don't want to feel this way anymore and just feel hopeless. I have been trying to say I surrender and let go and it helps but still. I know holding in bad emotions doesn't help either idk man

Stacey · 8/24/2017 12:59 pm

It sounds like you need to work on yourself a little more. If you're not in a good place and you do any LOA techniques it won't project any good out.
Look inside yourself and see what you need to do to be happy within yourself, it's easy to forget that on the whole manifesting ex thing is that it's not about the person, it's about you.

Maybe start with affirmations to build yourself up and then go back to the techniques once you're happy with yourself. The contradictory thing with this is to manifest a person back you need to be absolutely okay with being on your own.

Selfloveiskey · 8/24/2017 1:02 pm

Staceylouuu91x wrote:
It sounds like you need to work on yourself a little more. If you're not in a good place and you do any LOA techniques it won't project any good out.
Look inside yourself and see what you need to do to be happy within yourself, it's easy to forget that on the whole manifesting ex thing is that it's not about the person, it's about you.

Maybe start with affirmations to build yourself up and then go back to the techniques once you're happy with yourself. The contradictory thing with this is to manifest a person back you need to be absolutely okay with being on your own.

Well the thing is I know for a fact I had really good weeks I felt little to no resistance and was happy in the moment ...it's just the time ...how did this happen so quick before? It just makes me feel loa isn't real....like I have been doing self love techniques and saying affirmations I know I'm a great catch...

Thank you for your responses btw you don't know how much appreciate it!

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Riss_k · 8/24/2017 1:45 pm

Maybe just take a good deserved break.
It doesn't matter how long, just for how long you need it.
Stop all the techniques for now, just try to focus on loving yourself.
Try to make fun and distract yourself in a good way.
You deserve to be happy and live happy and not feel like this most of the time.
Pick up some hobbies, try to excell yourself in other areas in your life.
Also, in regards your belief in loa, try manifesting something that is not linked to your specific person.
But maybe for now it's just best to focus on your life and try to be grateful for everything you have now.
If you focus on lack, you will atract more of it.
If you focus on abundance, you will attract more of it.
You are alive and see that as a blessing! Life is so much more than a particular person.
Try to focus on what makes you happy, life really can be a celebration if you allow it to be!
And if you are in a better state and you still want to manifest that person back, then you can pick up the techniques from there. If not, then just don't. Create some stable self-love and a love for life first.

Selfloveiskey · 8/24/2017 2:00 pm

Now I feel like all my good progress has been removed ...

mugginess · 8/25/2017 1:01 am

I think you think that LOA is all about doing certain techniques and things will magically appear. It doesn't work like this. Yes those techniques are good when you don't care, but they shouldn't be done from a state of desperation. I would start with small experiments like manifesting a cup of coffee and then keeping a manifestation journal. You'll be surprised to see what you can manifest when you start off small I've manifested so many big things in one year, including a new house and many vacations. I lost my job but yet u gave more cash than I had when I was working One thing to know is that when you forget about your desire you're not really "forgetting". It's just stored in your subconscious.

Think of it as a computer file. You store it in the computer for later use and continue to use your computer. Then when something comes up and you need to retrieve that file that's when you get your answers. Do you get it now?

PrettyFlamingo · 8/25/2017 2:10 am

Selfloveiskey wrote:
Staceylouuu91x wrote:
The universe doesn't choose for you, it just responds to what you're putting out. How recent was the breakup? You might still be hurting from it and need some time to recover from it.
We were together 4 years and then broke up 4 years ago and I managed to get him back but I was desperate then broke up in 2014 . Then in early 2015 heard he was with someone else I discovered loa used it to get him back only got him single and we were friends with benefits for 2 years always I was so close and then nothing . That was my mistake because I didn't do the love part respect myself enough to be in a relationship not that. Anyway in may he gets really close to me backs off and thenstsrts dating this new girl ever since. I have been doing all sorts of things and as of recent really felt living in the now seemed like I was getting signs but I'm just so tired I have waited so long for a success story with me on this...I'm just so tired and I have done what I did the last time this happened and nothing. He did like my profile pic last weekend, he was nice to me and told me that " he and some friends should beat the **** out of the guy who was mean to me on my date" he also called to make sure I got him ok but all our friends do that . So some good things but still I'm just so tired and I just want him to be single at the very least. I stopped doing the rubbing out technique because it did nothing it doesn't work.

Sorry to blow up the messages boards I'm just so stuck and sad and just don't want to feel this way anymore and just feel hopeless. I have been trying to say I surrender and let go and it helps but still. I know holding in bad emotions doesn't help either idk man

I'm getting a sense of deja vu with this story as if I've read it before from a different forum member.

Lifesagas · 8/25/2017 2:19 am

Same.

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