Blossom1 wrote:

I hear you.I guess some people just cant handle negative comments even if they are meant with the best of intentions.I was really needy, desperate etc when first joined this forum .. several members pointed this out and advised me of the importance of self love, I was a little hurt at some the comments stating i was being needy but I now know its what I needed to hear at the time - I'm really grateful to those members who put me on the right path.I worked on myself, my business, focused on my kids and getting my house in order and manifested him back, twice .. it's better than its been in a long time and i know we are meant to be so sticking with the long distance thing and now looking at it that my glass is half full - basically focusing on all the positives than negatives and its working well.I now try and pass on the same advise on various loa forums that helped me - with varying degrees of gratitude lool 

I don't think its wrong to want ot change your situation and want things to be better for yourself especially since you had it good for so long then things go back out of nowhere.  Plus these people you were with are your whole world they are your best friend and soul mate.  Some just have negative outlooks on things which is sad.