The Batman wrote:

Just wanted to add that it is easier to stay on track than to veer off once you get into the swing of things. This entire day I was focused in my desired reality and synchronicities started popping up like nobody's business. Sure, you'll get the odd "Hey, wait a minute!" moment, occasionally, but it'll gently pass. You won't get anything if you don't trust, so you might as well engage fully. Just do it, folks! Haha.

I completely agree! You must have 100% trust!

Alikhy09 wrote:

I agree. Veronica says not to reach out to them. Let them come to us. I'm learning that. He's took notice of my distancing myself because the last time we saw each other last week after close to 3 weeks of no contact he kept asking why I hadn't spoken to him in that long. And then he said he thought I was distancing myself so he just left it alone. He even remembered how long it had been since we last spoke. I take that as a good thing but then I'm like well what the heck?! He notices I'm not reaching out to him and he wonders why, so why doesn't he reach out to me? I even told him that he had my number. Like as a joke. So maybe the universe is seeing it like I'm relying on him to make me happy and is ensuring I am strong on my own. I dunno, lol. 

I agree with Veronica. I made the mistake of contacting my guy and he didn't reply but I know it's because I was upset but now I'm confident that he only belongs to me! Do the same thing and you will see he only belongs to you!

Hisoneandonly wrote:

2 or 3 days.

No worries! At least you were honest! Let's get this up to 2-3 weeks and you can slowly move up!

DJ_Reeses wrote:

I will say that for the past few weeks, I have been WAAAAY more confident and detaching much easier. I trust the universe to bring him back to me. Our love is real and we will be together soon, I just know it! However, I cannot say that I am completely free of doubts. Me and my love are still close friends and talk often. However, he is dating someone new and there are times when he will mention her, or I will see something on social media, and it brings me down.

It won't bring me down hard, as I am getting really good at ignoring the current reality, but the thoughts can be persistent or very intrusive, and since my brain has a tenancy to overthink, it will start to bring up things or focus on things I DEFINITELY do not want it to focus on. This can leave me struggling for a few minutes or longer to reclaim my composure, and throughout the day I will get random flashes of the bad thoughts, but I can usually get my mind back on track.

 
This is wonderful! 👏🏼💜

Tinkerbell wrote:

For the past few weeks I have been very relaxed in the knowledge he will eventually come back. I haven't really done any RS or visualization much either (except imagining a text of him asking me out ). It must be working because he texted me to see how I was this past week and I saw on his Facebook that he is happy to be improving his life finally.

That's awesome Tinkerbell! I'm so glad that you're seeing results!!