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I've been on this journey since January so I can't remember the longest period of time I've been positive. Maybe a couple weeks? That was when I saw the most progress and interactions with him. I went through a period where I lost hope and I was very depressed and it was because I was resisting what I wanted so badly. I thought, "It will never come true. Everyone is right. I should forget him. I deserve better." So I tried to forget him and it was torture. I KNEW deep down that wasn't the right path. So then I finally decided that I was going to follow my heart and I started to ALLOW myself to feel what I was really feeling. And I decided that it was okay and it was right to be in love with him and that everything was going to be okay. And suddenly it was okay!
I think that whenever you're feeling sad, you're resisting. Your mind is telling you "NO" and that your dreams are stupid or unattainable because of fear. That part of you is just afraid it won't get what it wants so it pushes it away. You've got to just stop resisting. It's okay to be afraid. Everyone's afraid of change even if its a good change. Just remember that every time you feel bad its just because you're scared. Hug yourself. Hug those fears and tell them its okay. Tell the frightened part of yourself that there's no need to be afraid because everything is fine. Eventually the fear goes away.
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It took me a whole month to finally put my faith into the Universe.
A King only bows down to his Queen.
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The moment when I am diverted , I am positive , I am happy this is the 1st time where for straight 7 days I wasn't thinking much !! but yaa when I am all alone I start missing him , I start thinking a lot and at that moment even if I try to visualise I fail . Idk why when I am all alone and I am upset I turned out to be suppa negetive but being frank this issue has not happened with me from past 7 days
Adu loves Jui a lot , and they are back together forever !!!
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Dan2015 wrote:
Thanks dan2015, love5278, barbidoll, and batman for replying back and being honest.
As we can clearly see, not a single one of us claimed being completely positive for a long period of time. This clearly shows that we need to make sure we are 100% positive ALL the time. And, I know the moment we can truly say that I don't remember the last time I was negative will be when our desires will manifest.
And they will MANIFEST!!!
I hope this little activity helped you recognize where you stand. I'm sure Cherished can say that she doesn't remember the last time she was negative. I love how she changed so much and now her guy loves her!! I'm so happy for her and I know ALL of us too can be just like cherished!So true, plus I notice on days I'm positive. My love actually contacts me and we have good convos, but on days I'm negative or even have the slightest doubt. We don't talk at all
It's so important to make sure. That we are positive all the time
Dan2015, that's so awesome that you noticed how your experiences differed based on your thoughts and feelings. Now that you know this, you are getting your girl!
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I have only been able to go for a day or two being positive and full of faith. Then my mood drops so suddenly that I don't even know what happened. Even on days that I see signs and synchronicities I get really happy and motivated and then even still, at the end of the day I'm low again.
I think you hit the nail on the head when you said we expect quick results and when they don't come we get disappointed. My biggest roadblock is impatience for sure. I just miss him so much and that's why it's hard to wait.
I always tell myself that this time is good, because it's allowing me to work on myself and become a better version of myself so that when we are together again I won't cause the same problems and that helps for a bit... but then I start feeling impatient again!
And it's frustrating for me because I KNOW impatient won't get me what I want and yet I'm still impatient. I'm just having trouble truly letting go and trusting that he'll come.
Don't worry Sam, we all have had bad days. Since you aware of your weakness, try telling yourself that you're not going to let it get in the way of your desire!
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That's not accurate! I actually fell WAAAAAAY off my horse a few days ago (my metaphoric horse lol) and of course my relationship has followed into some rocky waters. Yee haaaaa!! Yay me! 😊👏🏼 What a magnificent deliberate creator I am!
What I CAN say is this.. It's not important that you fall down in vibration. It's actually very NECESSARY for your expansion. Contrast is the name of this game folks!! We have to learn to ADORE Contrast.. and by that I mean the wanted and unwanted variety we experience often. It has the potential of letting you deliberately choose, and in that, making you more deeply aware, more empowered and clear.
Abraham state that our Inner Beings often send us contrast, because it´s the next logical step on our path to what we ultimately desire.
REALLY try and think about that. It has been a profound few days for me. When you can stand in your happiness, peace and joy.. regardless of your circumstances, and FURTHER to this.. If you can CELEBRATE the contrast you are experiencing, and know that ALL of it is unfolding perfectly so that your desires can be realised.. then isn't THAT our ultimate freedom?!
I have had loads of uncertainty. Lots of meltdowns. Heaps of nail-biting doubt. And it has always slowed down or completely halted my relationship progress. AND I've also had moments of utter bliss that have instantaneously delivered to me some incredible positive momentum in my love life. It is thrilling to see it all happening in absolute direct response to my practiced vibration.
It's not about being ridiculously high flying 24/7.. I can't be, and nor would I want to be. A master is not someone who wins and then that's it, they're done. The master is the one who turns up each and every day. Who falls off and gets back on. Again and again and again. A master realises that the work is NEVER done. There will always be contrast, for that is what we came here to explore in all its glory! Without variety, we would have no choices. We wouldn't be magnificent individuals. With contrast, we have the opportunity to play or go home. And by that I mean MASTER THE ART OF ALIGNMENT each and every day.. Or simply live by default and let others create for you.
The most important thing is not perfection. At all. It's about embracing contrast, trusting that you're embarking on a wonderful ride, and then going with the flow of the universe towards all the wonders you have created in your mind. It's about alignment. And falling out of alignment. And then aligning. And then aligning and then aligning. Until you are a master of aligning. 💜🌈
Cherished, you have been a great role model for everyone and I'm sure you're back on your horse because you have really understood how to use LOA! Keep it up!!
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I've been on this journey since January so I can't remember the longest period of time I've been positive. Maybe a couple weeks? That was when I saw the most progress and interactions with him. I went through a period where I lost hope and I was very depressed and it was because I was resisting what I wanted so badly. I thought, "It will never come true. Everyone is right. I should forget him. I deserve better." So I tried to forget him and it was torture. I KNEW deep down that wasn't the right path. So then I finally decided that I was going to follow my heart and I started to ALLOW myself to feel what I was really feeling. And I decided that it was okay and it was right to be in love with him and that everything was going to be okay. And suddenly it was okay!
I think that whenever you're feeling sad, you're resisting. Your mind is telling you "NO" and that your dreams are stupid or unattainable because of fear. That part of you is just afraid it won't get what it wants so it pushes it away. You've got to just stop resisting. It's okay to be afraid. Everyone's afraid of change even if its a good change. Just remember that every time you feel bad its just because you're scared. Hug yourself. Hug those fears and tell them its okay. Tell the frightened part of yourself that there's no need to be afraid because everything is fine. Eventually the fear goes away.
Very well said! Now you can change that couple of weeks to forever!
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It took me a whole month to finally put my faith into the Universe.
Awesome! Keep it up!
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The moment when I am diverted , I am positive , I am happy this is the 1st time where for straight 7 days I wasn't thinking much !! but yaa when I am all alone I start missing him , I start thinking a lot and at that moment even if I try to visualise I fail . Idk why when I am all alone and I am upset I turned out to be suppa negetive but being frank this issue has not happened with me from past 7 days
That's good you have been good for 7 days and I know you will keep this up! Try doing something when you're alone! You can do this!
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Yes I agree here with alot of the posts . I can be very high for days and then out of nowhere I can fall . I don't post anything negetitive on the forums . I would private message those close to me instead if I needed a little boost. .
For me all of this is really about retraining the mind and knowing our future is ultimately in our own hands.
I am improving everyday but patience is my biggest obstacle but I know il get past that too.I always try to be positive when I'm on here and congratulate people for their progress. . I do admit though I wish more people had the same attitute here. Sometimes the forums are quite negetitive from the same people . I feel there pain but I wish I could grab them and shake them sometimes lol .
Anyway I'm committed to LOA so that's the main thing . I will master it very very soon .
Love you all xxx
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