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I'm seeing that a lot of people are feeling down and that's not good. Everyone deserves their hearts desires.
I too have had episodes of feeling down but that didn't change my reality. I think the problem is that people are positive for a few days and then expect results right away. When they don't see any results then they get upset and feel sad.
Can you guys be honest in terms of how many days you have wholeheartedly been confident and relaxed knowing that your person is coming?
For me it has been 7 days since I decided to change completely.
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And I want every single person on this forum to write an answer? I'm going to look at the user list and see who hasn't replied
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100 percent confident, with no doubts or worries? Probably like 3 straight days. Starting tomorrow(now too). I'm going to keep it positive for a week(doing baby steps). I won't expect anything, because I know things are happening the way I want
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I have started and gave up many times during these two years .. Consistently about a couple of weeks each time until I get discouraged
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I am still on the roller coaster I go up for a few hours and then a memory or something triggers sadness I am keeping myself completely off social media ( that was a big trigger) I am working hard on it though I catch myself most times I was with him for 12 years I am going to a girlfriends for the weekend Decided to dedicate the entire weekend to like a spa just fuss and primp read fashion magazines and read LOA books and really really work on me and my visualizations perhaps this will move me up in vibration I live alone and go nowhere but work I work 60 hrs a week
I know what I have to feel think and how I need to behave I just need to perhaps force the situation but yes I agree we are all going up and down and I am absolutely positively sure that once we get ourselves feeling good and vibrating high miracles will happen
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I've been up and down since letting go in October. Been at it for months with the LOA thing for my love. My days primarily consist of me battling my brain most of the time, regarding current reality, and is an absolute mess at times. Not fun, but what keeps me going is that when it is all said and done, my love MUST be back in arms after all of this, somehow, someway. There is no force on this planet and beyond that could possibly believe I come up short after all of this. If you don't call THIS true love, then what is?
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Thanks dan2015, love5278, barbidoll, and batman for replying back and being honest.
As we can clearly see, not a single one of us claimed being completely positive for a long period of time. This clearly shows that we need to make sure we are 100% positive ALL the time. And, I know the moment we can truly say that I don't remember the last time I was negative will be when our desires will manifest.
And they will MANIFEST!!!
I hope this little activity helped you recognize where you stand. I'm sure Cherished can say that she doesn't remember the last time she was negative. I love how she changed so much and now her guy loves her!! I'm so happy for her and I know ALL of us too can be just like cherished!
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I'm expecting everyone to reply. I'm busy at the hospital since I'm in medical school but trust me I'm going to follow up on everyone.
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Blessedck wrote:
Thanks dan2015, love5278, barbidoll, and batman for replying back and being honest.
As we can clearly see, not a single one of us claimed being completely positive for a long period of time. This clearly shows that we need to make sure we are 100% positive ALL the time. And, I know the moment we can truly say that I don't remember the last time I was negative will be when our desires will manifest.
And they will MANIFEST!!!
I hope this little activity helped you recognize where you stand. I'm sure Cherished can say that she doesn't remember the last time she was negative. I love how she changed so much and now her guy loves her!! I'm so happy for her and I know ALL of us too can be just like cherished!
So true, plus I notice on days I'm positive. My love actually contacts me and we have good convos, but on days I'm negative or even have the slightest doubt. We don't talk at all
It's so important to make sure. That we are positive all the time
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That's not accurate! I actually fell WAAAAAAY off my horse a few days ago (my metaphoric horse lol) and of course my relationship has followed into some rocky waters. Yee haaaaa!! Yay me! 😊👏🏼 What a magnificent deliberate creator I am!
What I CAN say is this.. It's not important that you fall down in vibration. It's actually very NECESSARY for your expansion. Contrast is the name of this game folks!! We have to learn to ADORE Contrast.. and by that I mean the wanted and unwanted variety we experience often. It has the potential of letting you deliberately choose, and in that, making you more deeply aware, more empowered and clear.
Abraham state that our Inner Beings often send us contrast, because it´s the next logical step on our path to what we ultimately desire.
REALLY try and think about that. It has been a profound few days for me. When you can stand in your happiness, peace and joy.. regardless of your circumstances, and FURTHER to this.. If you can CELEBRATE the contrast you are experiencing, and know that ALL of it is unfolding perfectly so that your desires can be realised.. then isn't THAT our ultimate freedom?!
I have had loads of uncertainty. Lots of meltdowns. Heaps of nail-biting doubt. And it has always slowed down or completely halted my relationship progress. AND I've also had moments of utter bliss that have instantaneously delivered to me some incredible positive momentum in my love life. It is thrilling to see it all happening in absolute direct response to my practiced vibration.
It's not about being ridiculously high flying 24/7.. I can't be, and nor would I want to be. A master is not someone who wins and then that's it, they're done. The master is the one who turns up each and every day. Who falls off and gets back on. Again and again and again. A master realises that the work is NEVER done. There will always be contrast, for that is what we came here to explore in all its glory! Without variety, we would have no choices. We wouldn't be magnificent individuals. With contrast, we have the opportunity to play or go home. And by that I mean MASTER THE ART OF ALIGNMENT each and every day.. Or simply live by default and let others create for you.
The most important thing is not perfection. At all. It's about embracing contrast, trusting that you're embarking on a wonderful ride, and then going with the flow of the universe towards all the wonders you have created in your mind. It's about alignment. And falling out of alignment. And then aligning. And then aligning and then aligning. Until you are a master of aligning. 💜🌈