I agree with Avaelle. Sometimes with particular ideas of LOA or whatever belief-  we take too much credit/responsibility for other people or events.

Like I said earlier,I can have someone pop into my head and think 'we should meet up'. It doesn't mean I act on it and me not acting on it doesn't mean anything about how I feel about that person.

I have a relative of mine that was dumped because the man felt betrayed by her. He not only cast her away as disloyal but appeared to hate her because of the issues her betrayal continued to cause him. He made it very clear that he wanted nothing further to do with her and that she should move on because he certainly was. She didn't accept this fate. She believed deeply that he was the love of her life and that they were meant to be together.

Desperation isn't a strong enough word to describe the state she was in.  She begged him and threw away all dignity. She would trick him onto calls but because she wanted to speak with him so bad. She did a lot of what we aren't supposed to do. 

In the end,  he returned to her.  They have children and plan to marry.