I've been talking to someone today about this whole issue. The link to my original post and the message I sent to this guy is below. He was someone I "almost" had something with a very long time ago. I've spent a lot of time talking it through this evening and I have come to the following conclusions.

I just have to let it go and draw a line under it. I have no idea why he wants nothing to do with me. "Moving on" isn't an excuse to me, but I have to stop giving energy to wondering why he is like this.

Whatever he thinks, it has no bearing on me or who I am. It does not make me worse as a person because he chooses not to interact with me. It's his choice, but it's also his loss. 

Maybe I belong to a part of his past he doesn't want to remember, I don't know. 





Hope all is well with you – from LinkedIn it looks as if it is since I last saw you goodness knows how many years ago.

(I then went on about work, and to ask him about what he's been doing, chit chat and so on.)

I didn’t have any particular reason for messaging you, just curious how you have been as I thought we were mates all those years ago & would have liked to stay in touch – if you'd rather not just tell me! Otherwise, fill me in! Take care M

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