sweetlove1990 wrote:

80saeaak wrote:

sweetlove1990 wrote:

Hm, you're the one overthinking. Signs are what you and only you can understand. They are a reflection of your own thoughts and feelings. It's not fair nor okay to base your experiences on someone else's. The universe doesn't add meaning to your signs or desire, you do. The universe isn't some person it's delivering to you your thoughts and desires. Also, it's based on belief so if you believed it was telling you something different it was only a reflection of your own thoughts that you didn't work on and just accepted as truth.

I reread what I posted and I think there's a misunderstanding. I said "what the signs are telling you are another thing" but meant "what the signs are telling you may mean another thing". That's based on my own experience and what I've witnessed and it's not bad advise. Sometimes you know something deep down and the signs may be saying something totally different than what you're interpreting them as. That's why self-awareness is important. How often do people look back and realize they ignored and misread signs? I'd say fairly often.

As far as this post goes... People throw around "I saw the same car as his three times today" or "I heard his name over and over all week". Is the car common? Is the name common? Personally, I don't see names or cars as signs unless they are tied to something. Signs and synchronicities are your subconscious telling you something. They don't just pop up out of nowhere for no reason. If they did it would be a coincidence and not a sign.

No, the universe doesn't act independently. You manifest signs and synchronicities with your subconscious. If she thinks it's a sign, it is. If she's questioning it, it's not. Signs and synchronicities don't leave room for debate. Which is why I said I wouldn't think too much about it as a one-time thing. If it keeps happening, that's a sign. If it happened once and she's not sure, it may just be life happening around her.

In the end, the point is still the same: Don't worry about it. If it's a sign, smile and know it's coming.

I'm not one to argue or debate. But the ending of your second paragraph contradicts "smile and know" having or knowing something deep down would mean there's something inside of YOU delivering that sign or circumstance and you're not working on it by being self aware or self loving. If you're self aware of unwanted then you'd focus on wanted or get rid of doubt. Self awareness is knowing how you're a feeling in this moment good or bad, and trying to fix it or milk it. You get what YOU believe not what anyone else believes. And no, I've never heard of anyone misreading signs, but again your experiences and mine are different. Have a good day.

There was nothing contradictory about those two statements. Either it's a sign or it's not. If it is, smile and know its coming. For someone who doesn't like to debate, you're being very combative.

Self awareness isn't only just a feeling in the moment. Many people feel great and later have an epiphany that they didn't realize while feeling great. It happens all the time. We all have limiting beliefs that we may not be aware of. If we didn't, we would all just manifest whatever we want as fast as lightning. Sometimes your beliefs are engrained deeply and aren't as obvious as lacking self love. It's not all black and white.

80saeaak wrote:

sweetlove1990 wrote:

80saeaak wrote:

I reread what I posted and I think there's a misunderstanding. I said "what the signs are telling you are another thing" but meant "what the signs are telling you may mean another thing". That's based on my own experience and what I've witnessed and it's not bad advise. Sometimes you know something deep down and the signs may be saying something totally different than what you're interpreting them as. That's why self-awareness is important. How often do people look back and realize they ignored and misread signs? I'd say fairly often.

As far as this post goes... People throw around "I saw the same car as his three times today" or "I heard his name over and over all week". Is the car common? Is the name common? Personally, I don't see names or cars as signs unless they are tied to something. Signs and synchronicities are your subconscious telling you something. They don't just pop up out of nowhere for no reason. If they did it would be a coincidence and not a sign.

No, the universe doesn't act independently. You manifest signs and synchronicities with your subconscious. If she thinks it's a sign, it is. If she's questioning it, it's not. Signs and synchronicities don't leave room for debate. Which is why I said I wouldn't think too much about it as a one-time thing. If it keeps happening, that's a sign. If it happened once and she's not sure, it may just be life happening around her.

In the end, the point is still the same: Don't worry about it. If it's a sign, smile and know it's coming.

I'm not one to argue or debate. But the ending of your second paragraph contradicts "smile and know" having or knowing something deep down would mean there's something inside of YOU delivering that sign or circumstance and you're not working on it by being self aware or self loving. If you're self aware of unwanted then you'd focus on wanted or get rid of doubt. Self awareness is knowing how you're a feeling in this moment good or bad, and trying to fix it or milk it. You get what YOU believe not what anyone else believes. And no, I've never heard of anyone misreading signs, but again your experiences and mine are different. Have a good day.

There was nothing contradictory about those two statements. Either it's a sign or it's not. If it is, smile and know its coming. For someone who doesn't like to debate, you're being very combative.

Self awareness isn't only just a feeling in the moment. Many people feel great and later have an epiphany that they didn't realize while feeling great. It happens all the time. We all have limiting beliefs that we may not be aware of. If we didn't, we would all just manifest whatever we want as fast as lightning. Sometimes your beliefs are engrained deeply and aren't as obvious as lacking self love. It's not all black and white.

That's what I meant having deep engrained believes that you may be overlooking/not know. I apologize for misunderstanding that part. But yeah the "many people" part is true for you, not me. We are different people with different experiences. I won't deny your truth. I personally don't believe that for myself and my life and my self awareness.

sweetlove1990 wrote:

80saeaak wrote:

sweetlove1990 wrote:

I'm not one to argue or debate. But the ending of your second paragraph contradicts "smile and know" having or knowing something deep down would mean there's something inside of YOU delivering that sign or circumstance and you're not working on it by being self aware or self loving. If you're self aware of unwanted then you'd focus on wanted or get rid of doubt. Self awareness is knowing how you're a feeling in this moment good or bad, and trying to fix it or milk it. You get what YOU believe not what anyone else believes. And no, I've never heard of anyone misreading signs, but again your experiences and mine are different. Have a good day.

There was nothing contradictory about those two statements. Either it's a sign or it's not. If it is, smile and know its coming. For someone who doesn't like to debate, you're being very combative.

Self awareness isn't only just a feeling in the moment. Many people feel great and later have an epiphany that they didn't realize while feeling great. It happens all the time. We all have limiting beliefs that we may not be aware of. If we didn't, we would all just manifest whatever we want as fast as lightning. Sometimes your beliefs are engrained deeply and aren't as obvious as lacking self love. It's not all black and white.

That's what I meant having deep engrained believes that you may be overlooking/not know. I apologize for misunderstanding that part. But yeah the "many people" part is true for you, not me. We are different people with different experiences. I won't deny your truth. I personally don't believe that for myself and my life and my self awareness.

No, you're right. We all have different truths and we all interpret LOA and the great teachers' views differently. I think that's what makes it so fun is how other people view it. Debates over signs and free will and everything else!  There's so much gray area and that's what makes it so fun. If it was a specific science we'd take it for granted.

And I truly believe that it's just us manifesting all these signs. They are small manifestations.
About names, I think we tend to overthink that part. The names of our POI is stored in our subconscious and so we manifest it. Like I've been seeing this name Veer a lot nowadays and I do not anyone with name. I believe when I first saw it, I must have overthought and so it's stored in my subconscious mind. Hence, I see it so much.

80saeaak wrote:

I would see them as synchronicities, but what the signs are telling you is another thing. I think people think "this is a sign" and never bother to interpret the meaning. Do your desires have anything to do with his kids? Are his kids a factor in the relationship or problems? Maybe I'm the one who overthinks, but I've under-thought too many times and realized the signs and synchronicities were telling me something totally opposite of what I thought they meant.

Personally, I wouldn't think too much of them unless they keep happening. One time isn't something to dissect, if you ask me.

Thank you ... I don't want to over think it .