I can see why people don't like replying.    I mean. We all have our own ways of doing things.   We all have our own morals.   Everything

Sometimes it's really hard to give advice and stuff, because what works for me, might not work for others

HappyManifesting wrote:

happyinlove wrote:

1) what's the point of asking for your desire if you aren't gonna get it
2) you are implying he loves her more then life itself so what is the point of asking for my desire?

Also you have no idea that lately I have felt nothing but love for him. I prefer he be with me. So if I'm not gonna get my desire what's the point of asking?

*disclaimer this is not meant to sound confrontational in any way I just want to know what's the point of asking and working toward my desire if you all are implying that this relationship is breaking to him . Like what is the point if he feels this bad when they break up?

Exactly! What's the point? Would you like it if it breaks him down?
I think it is about unconditional love and once you reach there, you wouldn't need love in return. But not everybody is ready to hear this. This is why it's better if people reach this point on their own.

What I see a lot of here is desperation. I don't mean you in particular, but there's a way to go about things. I have no idea why people are told they need to do these techniques or that you need to do them morning, noon, and night. The universe always answers and gives you what you are. You don't need to beg. You simply need to put the desire out there and match t. "Living in the end" is living as if you've already received it. If you're doing PW, BWD, MT, and a million other techniques several times a day, there has to be a lack. A desire unfulfilled, if you will. Sure, visualizing with emotion sends out the message that you're living in it. The universe (your subconscious) doesn't distinguish between reality and fantasy. However, you subconsciously know you don't have it, which is why you keep doing the techniques consciously. This is why it's so important to let go when you have a desire. Okay, do the techniques here and there. Releasing it, not caring about it, feeling content with or without your desire is what makes it happen faster because you're not in a state of want or lack.

I don't know if this answers the question, but it's definitely going to clarify a few points. Yeah, RS does hit them subconsciously and makes them think of you. If you're nagging at the universe, you're standing in your on way. Let go and release it, giving unconditional love and being okay without your desire, so the universe can give it to you.

happyinlove wrote:

80saeaak wrote:

HappyManifesting wrote:

Exactly! What's the point? Would you like it if it breaks him down?
I think it is about unconditional love and once you reach there, you wouldn't need love in return. But not everybody is ready to hear this. This is why it's better if people reach this point on their own.

What I see a lot of here is desperation. I don't mean you in particular, but there's a way to go about things. I have no idea why people are told they need to do these techniques or that you need to do them morning, noon, and night. The universe always answers and gives you what you are. You don't need to beg. You simply need to put the desire out there and match t. "Living in the end" is living as if you've already received it. If you're doing PW, BWD, MT, and a million other techniques several times a day, there has to be a lack. A desire unfulfilled, if you will. Sure, visualizing with emotion sends out the message that you're living in it. The universe (your subconscious) doesn't distinguish between reality and fantasy. However, you subconsciously know you don't have it, which is why you keep doing the techniques consciously. This is why it's so important to let go when you have a desire. Okay, do the techniques here and there. Releasing it, not caring about it, feeling content with or without your desire is what makes it happen faster because you're not in a state of want or lack.

I don't know if this answers the question, but it's definitely going to clarify a few points. Yeah, RS does hit them subconsciously and makes them think of you. If you're nagging at the universe, you're standing in your on way. Let go and release it, giving unconditional love and being okay without your desire, so the universe can give it to you.

Understand but what if the techniques calm you and make you feel good?

If they make you feel good, do them. The problem is that most people don't let go and instead live their lives around the techniques. You're also attaching yourself more to the outcome by visualizing often. People say they don't, but I find it hard to believe that anyone is imagining their person saying "I love you, I want you" several times a day and able to show unconditional love and let go afterwards. You're continuing to attach yourself via visualizations instead of detaching. Most of the techniques are focused on having someone else desire you instead of desiring yourself. Personally, I find meditation without a thought in my head more therapeutic. I remain detached and I know my desire is already out there without having to imagine what isn't yet in my reality. If you happen to notice that it's taking a long time or that things are going in a different direction than you desire, step back and reevaluate. I would be willing to bet stop doing the visualizations would help you let go and manifest more quickly. Most people say they gave up the imaginational work and that's when they got their full manifestation. That's not a coincidence. I think doing these techniques for a long period of time is damaging, causes delays, and totally contradictory of how LOA works. I think there's a reason most of these challenges are 21-30 days. Any more than that is unnecessary and will hinder progress.

I don't think there's anything wrong with doing the techniques once in awhile or if you enjoy them

But like a few others have said.  It's so easy to get attached or obsessed with them

I try to balance it out.    Last week I did some RS.  But this week I haven't and probably won't


I actually feel more calm,relaxed and confident  not just about my desire but about life in general.     I just been overal  genuine happy.     

Sometimes I get into bad habits, with rushing.  Or panicking, etc.   but this week has just been the sense of being happy and knowing all my life desires will happen

happyinlove wrote:

But what's the point of using loa if you can't get your desire? What you are basically saying is no matter what I do I can't manifest a relationship with him so why am I doing this. I should just give up is what your saying so really its loa doesn't exist because all those stories and things of people getting their ex back by loa is fake correct?
So what's the point again? Like really what is he point? lol I have a desire I'm working toward it but you say I won't get it soooooooooooo what's he point lol .

Also I know he he doesn't love her that much sooooo

No you do not know how much he loves this woman. You are not inside his heart to know what he feels. Once again you are putting energy on irrelevant things.