camber wrote:

I’ve stopped coming to this place for the very fact of what’s happening throughout this thread. For whatever reason, people seem to have a hard time accepting that Loa works differently for everyone. Your experiences will not be the same as someone else’s. Yes, there will be overlapping similarities but as a whole, no two people are identical in their situations or approaches. To tell someone they shouldn’t want something is silly. It’s not your claim or judgement to make. You don’t know what they’re going through. All you’re sure of is the bits and pieces they choose to share on a public forum. It can get repetitive but then again, most things are. There’s always more to a story and to speak like you know others better than they know themselves is unnecessary. At the end of the day, every person here is using Loa to better their lives. Those who are stuck will eventually find their way. If they don’t, that’s okay too because it will be their choice. Let everyone live their truth. If you think they’re being self destructive, throw in your two cents. Those who want to listen, will. Those who don’t, won’t.. in which case, stop replying. You don’t need to continue to support or enable behaviour you think is bad or obsessive. Wish them well and hope they figure out what works best for them.

As for attracting past loves, I will never agree with the whole “someone better/something better” argument. It conflicts with everything Loa is — that we create our own reality. When a person decides to move on from their ex and suddenly meets someone new, it’s not the Universe or God showing you “something better.” It’s YOU. It’s always been YOU. Why? Because you moved and progressed from your original desires and intentions. You grew into stronger alignment with a more beneficial outcome. As a result, the person you met after letting go of your ex matched the wants and needs you were looking for in that moment and time. It’s common sense yet people have to complicate things by preaching and praising the Universe for bringing someone new into their life when it’s been in their control and hands the whole time. 

I truly do believe we can manifest a reconciled relationship with anyone but it has to start and end with us. If you’re clinging onto techniques to bring someone back, it’s not about you. If you’re asking the same questions every other day looking for a different answer, you haven’t let go. If your heart sinks at the thought of them being with someone else, you’re still much too attached to attract them back into your life. Unconditional love doesn’t have restrictions. It doesn’t mean, “I’m going to love you only if you’re with me.” You can’t love a person on your own terms. You wouldn’t want him or her doing that to you so why would you expect the same from them? Look at the success stories of those who have manifested the return of their exes. The one thing you will notice across the board is that they ALL took back control of their lives and well being. They lived for themselves, showed gratitude, and genuinely felt content without their person. That’s what Loa is about. Honest feelings. Affirmations are nothing without them. Actions are nothing without them. If you’re hung up on the negativity and attachment of this person returning, you’re always going to be attracting the same sort of behaviour back to you — absence and disappointment.

I’m not going to judge what another person wants. Do what feels right for you. If you don’t believe that Loa works, great! If you do, great! Either way, as long as you’re living your truth and happiness, pay no attention to what others are doing. It really is of no concern to you. Let people do and attract what they want. The most any of us can do is show support when it’s needed and walk away when we no longer align with what’s been said or done. Live and let live.

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You said exactly what I wanted to say!

I thought about it. In my freshman year I was in a premed program and everyone wanted to go to med school. There were some that got in after three years and others who moved onto other career paths because their applications weren't a fit for med school. Then there was a third group. They didn't get into med school right away so they either worked or went to grad school and was ok with the idea of never going to med school but they tried anyway. And they got in. The Universe gave all three groups what they are. And that's all what I'm trying to say.

YesIWILL wrote:

mugginess wrote:

YesIWILL wrote:

But if we create our own universe, then sure we can. Everyone is us pushed out, meaning we can get whomever we'd like.

Please. Just. Stop. Please. You cannot force anyone to do anything. You can create situations to attract them to you but you cannot force them. And that logic encourages people to commit actions such as rape or stalking or harassment. So stop. And get therapy.

Woooaoah. Somone is full of salt. If we don't attract whatever we want, then LoA is bull. 

Why be a total asshole to me for no reason simply because you're salty of your own manifesting abilities? It's not nice to tell a random guy to "get therapy"... Kinda sounds like you're the one who needs it.

If you have nothing productive to add, then gtfo the forum, kiddo.

Your vibe is so low that you couldn't see what I posted which I was trying to help people. You are so negative that you are unable to see what I posted as productive. And yes, you are a stranger but those thoughts hurt me deeply. If you as a stranger can be an energy drain to me, I don't know how you get through the relationships in your life.

I think LOA is highly misunderstood. It's not really about changing people's will, not that you can. But it's a waste of time if you wanna try doing that.
Now before attacking me know that I've manifested my ex back twice, yes the same ex. And both the times I did not do any of these techniques.
I do not believe in any way that I changed his will, I think I changed my vibrational frequency over the time and he came back every freaking time. It's insane how it unfolded for me.
In my opinion, these techniques don't tell you the actual secret which is letting go of the resistance. Usually when you move on, your ex comes back. This is because when you've moved on, you have let go of the resistance. That's all there is to it.
Also, this thread turned nasty for no reason.

YesIWILL wrote:

But if we create our own universe, then sure we can. Everyone is us pushed out, meaning we can get whomever we'd like.

Here’s the thing. Whenever I see people arguing over, “But Loa says we can attract anything we want!,” you have to also take into consideration where you’re currently at mentally and emotionally. Yes, you can attract whoever and whatever you want but if you’re in a low place, those relationships or manifestations will be short lived. This is why it’s incredibly crucial to focus on yourself first. You can repeat the same affirmations every day until you pass out but unless you internally feel the words you’re saying, you’re going to be standing on shaky ground.

You can’t in the same breath go, “She or he is going to return. We’re in a new loving relationship” and in the next one, “but they’re in a relationship right now. I don’t know if it’s going to work. Maybe it won’t. What do I do? It's been so long. They blocked me. Do they hate me? I need a new technique. I wish there was one that 100% successful. I better ask someone.” It’s a spiral. When you don’t respect yourself or the life you’ve been given, any good that comes to you will never be appreciated in deserving ways.

To have a loving relationship with anyone, you need to show the same kindness to yourself. Loa isn’t a Genie that grants all your wishes. You have to put in the internal and emotional work to reach a place where you’re able to openly receive the care you’ve always wanted. If you don’t and continue putting your worth in the hands of those who don’t see your value, what do you really think will happen?

Be accountable for where you are, forgive what’s already happened, and move towards becoming the best version of yourself for you. Put in the work and the rest will follow.

Yes Camber!The basics of LOA; loving yourself, treating yourself (and others) well and expecting the same from others,being grateful and positive. Detaching and letting go. Not being obsessed or needy. Realising that you are so amazing and so happy that you don't need anyone or anything else. That vibe is SO attractive and gets you want you want.

Sometimes I see posts and it's like someone saying 'I want to use LOA to become a Dr'.

Great! Let's start by manifesting a place at your chosen medical school.

Oh I don't want to go to medical school.

Um, you can't really be a Dr without some of that.

Oh but LOA works every time doesn't it? Ask, believe, receive. No exceptions.

True but there's steps to take and work to be done to get you there.

I'm doing the work! I visualise being a Dr every day, I really feel myself putting the scrubs on, I see the lights in the ward, I hear my beeper going off. I tell myself 100 times a day I'm a Dr. I do the become a Dr meditation I found on youtube every day. I've written page after page of my scripts of consultations with patients. That's what everyone says to do, thoughts become things! The mind doesn't know the difference between imagination and reality. What I seek is seeking me.

But...but you'll have to do some medical training too, that has to be part of manifesting becoming a Dr.

Why are you telling me I can't have this? It either works every time or it doesn't! I think maybe I sometimes doubt it and that's why it isn't working, I'll try harder, do more scripting and meditation. I feel really good right now so it'll happen soon.

It doesn't matter..you have to do some....

I saw a Dr House poster today, I think that's a sign! Isn't it? If I think it's a sign then it's a sign isn't it?

Great, it's made you feel good which is good for your vibe but still....the medical training thing..