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I think she was wrong to get you all excited if she knew she were too busy for anything. The gift and drive was over the top. At least now though, you know that other women can excite you. On to the next match, but do not have expectations early on because some are flaky.
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Avaelle wrote:
I think she was wrong to get you all excited if she knew she were too busy for anything. The gift and drive was over the top. At least now though, you know that other women can excite you. On to the next match, but do not have expectations early on because some are flaky.
Thank you! I'm going to give it my best shot. Thank you so much, Avaelle <3
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Thread Starter- PrettyFlamingo
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I think she was wrong to get you all excited if she knew she were too busy for anything. The gift and drive was over the top. At least now though, you know that other women can excite you. On to the next match, but do not have expectations early on because some are flaky.
I agree entirely. Way too much for a first date.
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In a perfect world, people would be more careful and thoughtful on Tinder and these other dating apps.
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Personal experience, almost got sexually assaulted here...so just b ecareful, okay?
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i tried sending a simple final message to this girl via google hangouts. She blocked me immediately.
Ha. I don't even know what the **** happened. She's not even willing to explain.
I gotta say, that really digs deep.
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Thread Starter- Avaelle
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A good tool is to learn how to find your own closure instead of needing to receive it from someone else. I know how it feels to just want a person to tell you what happened or explain why just so you know. The reality though is that some people simply will not give you the answers that you feel that you need.
My advice is to not fret over this woman too much further. If her randomness isn't what you want, pass on it. Moving forward, take this dating thing day by day. With her, you immediately jumped to her being your something better - that is where the disappointment lies.
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i tried sending a simple final message to this girl via google hangouts. She blocked me immediately.
Ha. I don't even know what the **** happened. She's not even willing to explain.
I gotta say, that really digs deep.
*facepalm* You're really going to wind up getting a restraining order one of these times. You said she did explain. Many times. She's not into you. Explanation enough. Why do you feel the need to burn every bridge? If you really want to be able to explore these same options later, you need to learn to walk away with dignity.
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i tried sending a simple final message to this girl via google hangouts. She blocked me immediately.
Ha. I don't even know what the **** happened. She's not even willing to explain.
I gotta say, that really digs deep.*facepalm* You're really going to wind up getting a restraining order one of these times. You said she did explain. Many times. She's not into you. Explanation enough. Why do you feel the need to burn every bridge? If you really want to be able to explore these same options later, you need to learn to walk away with dignity.
Because if you read, that's CLEARLY not what she ******* said. 
You're a helpful person. I like this.
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Thread Starter- Dan2015
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I know how it feels to want closure. lol my mindset with this type of stuff use to be so bad, and I know it was cause my default mindset was a negative one
I remember I use to get upset if random people didn't accept my friend request. I would really be upset/sad even somewhat angry if people I thought I was close with either blocked me or just went MIA on me
Those things suck, trust me. But lately I honestly don't care. I mean, I'm one of those people with loa who feel like we can manifest anything/anyone we want without limitations and feel like we could change people's behaviors towards us
In reality, how many people actually deserve for us to use our "loa powers" on? Now that I think about it, none of the people who left my life are even worth manifesting back.
I could spend my manifesting powers on good health,money,etc Now that I think about it, in the last year. There's probably only maybe 3 people I care to even manifest back into my life
I've realized, most people aren't worth it
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