YesIWILL wrote:

give up for now, focus on you. 
I know it can be hard, trust me, I know! It's hard for me too. But if you let go, or back up a bit (detach?) then it'll become easier to believe!

Sending positive thoughts your way!

Thank YIW.. I just don't know how much more of this I can take.

Your problem is that you don't believe. You can do the techniques but it is pointless if you don't believe that you can create your own life. Whether you like it or not..every person's life has to do with LOA even if they aren't aware of it. It is scientific! You think and believe negative thoughts so unwanted events happen..you think positive thoughts and believe you can get what you want then you will get it. Now, that I am aware that I am in charge of my own life and that it has a name LOA and I look back at things that happened to me whether good or bad and I think of how i was thinking when it happened I realise it was LOA. I now look at my mom who loves playing victim to circumstances and won't listen to me..she is very negative and unwanted things happen to her..and she just knew it will happen...I try to tell her that because of the fact that she just knew...and she believed and thought negatively so the outcome was negative...she doesn't get it and she continues going down the same path. So, even for her LOA is happening..it is real.

collie wrote:

Your problem is that you don't believe. You can do the techniques but it is pointless if you don't believe that you can create your own life. Whether you like it or not..every person's life has to do with LOA even if they aren't aware of it. It is scientific! You think and believe negative thoughts so unwanted events happen..you think positive thoughts and believe you can get what you want then you will get it. Now, that I am aware that I am in charge of my own life and that it has a name LOA and I look back at things that happened to me whether good or bad and I think of how i was thinking when it happened I realise it was LOA. I now look at my mom who loves playing victim to circumstances and won't listen to me..she is very negative and unwanted things happen to her..and she just knew it will happen...I try to tell her that because of the fact that she just knew...and she believed and thought negatively so the outcome was negative...she doesn't get it and she continues going down the same path. So, even for her LOA is happening..it is real.

Obviously I know the problem is that I don't believe.. hence me making a post admitting that I don't.

Why do you not believe? have you made no progress whatsoever with your ex? are you able manifest other things?agnes says in one her vids its ok to just take time out, leave the loa stuff alone for few weeks or longer .. that's probably when you see a positive shift, when you let go. same as one the other posters, since coming on this forum and learning about loa ive realised over the years ive manifested a ton of stuff without even realising it - jobs, relationships (inc one with a crush after id moved abroad!) holidays, a house, a dog,  plus a few negative things because I gave them to much focus .. what I have also realised is we don't decide when our wishes manifest, the universe works its magic when its ready