lolabear wrote:

YesIWILL wrote:

lolabear wrote:

You get so mad. 😂

Only because people think they know me better than they know myself

That's like me saying "My name is Richard"
And you being like, "No it's not! Don't be stupid."
And I'm like "It is though! Jesus!"
And then you being like, "Dude ******* listen to us. We're all saying you're wrong so you're wrong!"

That's basically you right now. It's no wonder I'm being defensive

Anyone would get pissy from someone practically saying, "I know you better than you know yourself". I just get pissy faster than others 


And no, my name isn't Richard lol.

But that's exactly my point.

To me, if someone is truly confident in their beliefs and their truth, they WOULDN'T get pissy, and they certainly wouldn't feel the need to defend themselves to anyone, especially people who are irrelevant to their life (like me). Don't you see how that kind of reaction would only further my beliefs about you?

Anyway, you're going to say what you're going to say, BUT you have to start acting like it too! Stop being so reactive. You cannot let negative things bother you, that's the entire point of the LOA- focusing on the positive. If you want to believe, then quit trying to debunk it, and keep on trying!

You also have to stop acting like you're just some target that people like to freely attack, cause you're not. If you accept the LOA then you have to accept that you're a match to whatever you're getting. Period. If you continue to believe that people are just randomly assholes then that's all you'll ever get. And it's not about blaming yourself, it's much more powerful than that. I can tell you from personal experience how liberating it is to see behavior you don't like, change your perception of that person and watch their behavior turn around completely.

You're right! I do have to stop being so negative!! Thank you so much <3

You should try reading some free courses with regards in LoA.