I see what you mean.    But I think you tend to focus on things you don't manifest more than the things you do manifest


What about how you got that week off, that you said was impossible?

jensherratt wrote:

Your sister's baby's gender is really only in her and her boyfriend's/husband's control. Maybe they'd visualized having a boy and it's their reality not yours.

I think deep down you do have resistance. You're focusing on what's not happening and that's giving you your doubt.

Good point.  With the first one


For all he knows, his sister or the father could have really wanted a boy

YesIWILL wrote:

Dan2015 wrote:

I see what you mean. But I think you tend to focus on things you don't manifest more than the things you do manifest


What about how you got that week off, that you said was impossible?

Well yeah I can continue focusing on the good. I just want to know why these happened.

jensherratt wrote:

Your sister's baby's gender is really only in her and her boyfriend's/husband's control. Maybe they'd visualized having a boy and it's their reality not yours.

I think deep down you do have resistance. You're focusing on what's not happening and that's giving you your doubt.

Naw. Not in this case. No resistance at all. And what happened to everyone creates their own reality and everyone is you pushed out? If the LoA is real (and it is) it shouldn't really matter what they think. Because either way, it's in my reality. If what you said it true, then it confirms that the LoA doesn't always work. Meaning this whole forum is useless (It's not, of course. Because I know it works... but you get what I'm saying.) - It's like picking and choosing Bible verses. It doesn't work that way. If the LoA works, then it should've been the way I've envisioned. I had absolutely no resistance to these things.


just sounds to me like there's a lot of inconsistencies here. If what you say is true, then, for example, I can't manifest whatever I want into my life, and I can't, for example, "manifest an ex back", because that's not what 'she wants'.

 

 
The Law Of Attraction works 100% of the time for everyone.

You can't say you have NO resistnace. You do. Maybe not about this one thing, but any resistance can cause delays.

What people fail to remember is that when you involve a third party, they have free will. You can't just say "I want to manifest a person talking to me" and it happens. When you thought of this person, they thought of you. Thought transference. That doesn't necessarily mean that they'll reach out. Perhaps they thought "I should message him" and never followed through.

If you want to manifest something for proof, try doing it with something emotionless. Like I wanted free bedsheets. I was yanking my crap sheets over my bed and I said "I'm getting new yellow cotton bedsheets for free and it is done".  Two days later I got a coupon code for 40% off a department store. $100 yellow cotton sheets were marked down to $30. I used the code and it came out to $17. I thought that a deal is a deal and went to buy them. When I logged into my account I realized I had a leftover gift card sitting there from Christmas. Free sheets. When you try for "silly" things like free coffee or good parking spots or green lights, you'll see how it works. Get your proof from that and then build up to bigger things like a job or a person. Start small and get your vibration up that way.

Here's what I think- and take it as you like- you really don't have a lot of faith in people. I've read your posts. You have bad feelings about your girl. You have bad feelings about your dad. Everyone around you is out to get you and make you miserable. You try to bring your vibration up, but there's always an outside source keeping you from it. That's not how it works. You have to keep the vibration high from within you and let things roll off your back. When you have these feelings about people, that they don't care, they don't pay attention, they don't want your happiness... it effects EVERY relationship you have. So, no. This person may not have reached out to you. Maybe they thought about it and said "I don't want to be dragged down hearing about his problems". Am I being harsh? Maybe, but it's incredibly likely. Your vibration and resistance to letting go of one relationship will absolutely effect every other relationship. That's a fact. 

My advise is stop trying to manifest human interaction until you get your head right. You may not see resistance because you're so close to it. I see it. Other users see it. It's there.

Take a hot bath with a handful of epsom salt and a splash of vinegar. Do a cord cutting meditation every night. Spend ten minutes working on your root chakra (lay back and say "LLLLLLUUUUUUUMMMMMM" repeatedly for about 10-15 minutes 2-3 times a day").  Get your head right first.

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Dan2015 wrote:

80saeaak wrote:

You can't say you have NO resistnace. You do. Maybe not about this one thing, but any resistance can cause delays.

What people fail to remember is that when you involve a third party, they have free will. You can't just say "I want to manifest a person talking to me" and it happens. When you thought of this person, they thought of you. Thought transference. That doesn't necessarily mean that they'll reach out. Perhaps they thought "I should message him" and never followed through.

If you want to manifest something for proof, try doing it with something emotionless. Like I wanted free bedsheets. I was yanking my crap sheets over my bed and I said "I'm getting new yellow cotton bedsheets for free and it is done". Two days later I got a coupon code for 40% off a department store. $100 yellow cotton sheets were marked down to $30. I used the code and it came out to $17. I thought that a deal is a deal and went to buy them. When I logged into my account I realized I had a leftover gift card sitting there from Christmas. Free sheets. When you try for "silly" things like free coffee or good parking spots or green lights, you'll see how it works. Get your proof from that and then build up to bigger things like a job or a person. Start small and get your vibration up that way.

Here's what I think- and take it as you like- you really don't have a lot of faith in people. I've read your posts. You have bad feelings about your girl. You have bad feelings about your dad. Everyone around you is out to get you and make you miserable. You try to bring your vibration up, but there's always an outside source keeping you from it. That's not how it works. You have to keep the vibration high from within you and let things roll off your back. When you have these feelings about people, that they don't care, they don't pay attention, they don't want your happiness... it effects EVERY relationship you have. So, no. This person may not have reached out to you. Maybe they thought about it and said "I don't want to be dragged down hearing about his problems". Am I being harsh? Maybe, but it's incredibly likely. Your vibration and resistance to letting go of one relationship will absolutely effect every other relationship. That's a fact.

My advise is stop trying to manifest human interaction until you get your head right. You may not see resistance because you're so close to it. I see it. Other users see it. It's there.

Take a hot bath with a handful of epsom salt and a splash of vinegar. Do a cord cutting meditation every night. Spend ten minutes working on your root chakra (lay back and say "LLLLLLUUUUUUUMMMMMM" repeatedly for about 10-15 minutes 2-3 times a day"). Get your head right first.

I think a lot of people get confused with LOA,  because some say that you control your own reality, so free will isn't a big deal...  but then others will mention free-will 


I think it usually all comes back to the person though, if they truly believe they can manifest everything they will, but like you say.. if they have doubts/resistance on some things(especially people)  it will impact all aspects of that 


For example, yesterday.. there's a person I haven't talked to in almost a month, I thought about me texting them, but then I said "nevermind, I'll do it some other time"

I went away from my phone, just relaxed on the couch for awhile, and when I went back to my phone(an hour later)  I saw a text from them 

Free will isn't a big deal and we DO control our own realities... until resistance comes into play. People who are always vibrating high (that's not to say they never get down, but it's very rare for it to phase them like it would others) tend to manifest phone calls, specific people, relationships, good rapport with hard-ass bosses... If you're on a low frequency, you're going to see a LOT of free will from other people that doesn't benefit you. Energy bounces off of everyone so if you're a generally glum and down person, even if it's not vocal, you will repel people. They don't want your negativity draining them. It's a job to be around people who suck your energy. People with low vibes are energy suckers.

I have a friend who is quiet. He doesn't say much of anything ever, even when it's just us chilling. In a group setting he rarely speaks up and is usually laughing when he does get involved in conversation. He hasn't had a relationship in 15 years, doesn't have any close friends, and is very distant from his family. He has terrible self-esteem issues. He has told me that he feels like he's going to be alone and people don't like him. He's not openly down and he doesn't have an obvious "pity me" attitude. Even though he's not vocal about it, he's putting off that vibe and it's stopping up his relationships. People feel that and don't want any part of it. Why would they?

Yeah, free will is a thing. Just because it doesn't effect most people on a high vibration doesn't mean it's not a thing. It simply doesn't effect them because it's not part of their reality. It's not part of their reality because they don't have the resistance that bounces off other people. It's all about mindset. You're vibrating higher so when you think of messaging someone they think "oh I'd love to catch up with Dan!" While if Will does it someone may think "This is going to be a half hour of listening to him mope and grouch". Big difference between your manifestating skills because you have different vibrations. Same knowledge, but different application.

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