I've been reflecting a lot lately on past situations, I've noticed each time something hasn't gone my way it's usually been because I've been focused on the worst possible scenario. 

We're only human and we're not expected to have it together 24/7. There will be days where you won't feel 100% aligned and you know what? That's fine. Those are the days you really need to look after yourself. Fighting it is the equivalent of swimming against the current. What you resist persists. 

In these situations where you want specific people, I've noticed from my experience that I was always terrified of the idea of not having them so I'd cling to that and it made me ill. Now, I'm not saying accept them as fact because your reality will change once your perspective changes. 

Are you worried about life without the person?
You've lived without them and you will be able to again. 

Are you worried nobody will love you again?
Somewhere right now there's a person who dreams of being with a person like you. 

Are you worried you won't be happy without them?
You will be in time. I used to turn my nose up at the whole "time heals all wounds" cliché but from my experience, it's absolutely true.

Just remember these processes don't have a time limit. We're all different.  For one person it can take a day, another it'll take a month, maybe even a year for some

Just remember, that life itself is a marathon and not a sprint. 

Last edited by Staceylouuu91x (6/03/2017 3:21 pm)