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The other day a friend of mine asked me why are we told not to look at their social media profiles when we are trying to attract a specific person or ex. She told me it actually makes her happy to look at the guy's profiles such as Instagram and Facebook and it is something she enjoys.
The reason we tell you not to do it because if you see a picture of the person you want to attract with someone, that will lower your vibration. You'll be thinking about it which just adds energy to that relationship, you get down and upset about it so naturally stalking social media should be off the a gender.
If you can look at their profiles and not let any content effect your mood then personally I don't see why you can't have a peep.
There's a lot of people who say they looked on their profile and got disheartened because they saw something they didn't like so that is why we reccomend you don't do it. Social media stalking isn't something I do so its not a problem.
Speaking of Instagram, if you want I suggest you go and follow Lorraine_joyce1111.
This isn't her personal account but its her vision board and there's loads of inspirational quotes about LOA, love etc.
If you want inspiration, her vision board will most likely help you and shell probably follow you back. Its up to you.
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I have a question though. I do no stalking whatsoever. I actually deactivated my Facebook and Instagram account so that I do not see anything that brings my vibration down. And I feel better without those, no negativity to look at. But, the day before, I was searching for someone on Snapchat and his name popped up(he is not added in my contacts), it was the first in the list too. And I had no intention to search him. I got some butterfly ish for a second but then I was like bleh. Why is that? I mean, why would that happen when I clearly do not want to see him on Social Media?
Last edited by HappyManifesting (5/31/2017 1:37 pm)
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I understand this completely. On one hand, I'd view his social media and would use what I saw to inspire my visualizations. I'd even find myself laughing and smiling at the things he'd do. On the other hand, I'd get filled with jealousy about him even hanging out with his friends and my mood would take a major hit.
It's not worth the peek until you're steady.
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When we are looking for our person's social media we're are usually looking for meaning. And, as Abraham Hicks says, if you're looking for meaning, you're gonna one. And it's probably going to be the one we fear.
We're in no place to stock their social media. Don't worry, though, once this person comes back we'll see all of the nice pictures and funny posts we haven't seen.
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Yup. That's how I found out mine is with someone else. I didn't look at his page, but I found out through someone I should have blocked. It brought my vibe down and doubt creep in. Never again.
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Everything is about you and your felings, when I used to stalk the social media of my SP, I used to feel very bad, that's why I stopped stalking her, but if you can see the social media of your SP and you feel good, then it's ok
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If you get upset by what you see then it's best to have a social media detox for at least 21 days. A lot of people don't just look at their specific person/ex they also look at friends and family if that person, this can also trigger negative thoughts
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That is what I would do. I would look at his friends, especially the ones that would leave those heart eyes.
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I'm not one to talk social media but I know a lot of people do