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I posted a few weeks ago about how I manifested my ex appearing to me at the supermarket and getting down on his knees apologizing to me and telling me he loves me. Things seemed like they were moving along. A little background; the reason I stopped seeing him is because he is living with someone and I told him I won't be with him until he leaves that situation. So he told me he is working toward it. I have been patient, but I haven't seen any real action from him, just lip service, so two weeks ago he was going on and on to me about how much he loves me as he has never loved another and asked me to promise him I will never leave him and always love him etc, and I said to him, "You know how I feel. I love you more than anything and I want to be with you. What are you doing about it though?" and that is when he said, "You don't think I do anything but talk, but I am going to meet with a financial planner so I can figure out how we can divide things up and you and I can live together comfortably. Would you like to come along with me for the appointment?" (They are heavily entangled with financial investments together). So I said, "Yes, I'll come along. Let me know when you make the appointment." That was on a Friday. The following Wednesday, he came to visit me at work and brought me a coffee. We chatted for awhile and before he left I said, "So, did you make the appointment?" He said, "Not yet. I will tomorrow." The following day, I didn't hear from him until 9:00 that night and he sent me a text, "Spent two hours waiting at the airport to pick up my friend. Then drove to meet the guys for dinner. Did not have a chance to make the appointment today. I know, I know." And that was it. I did not reply to the text because I feel very frustrated by his inaction and felt as if he is stringing me along. That was almost two weeks ago. I have not heard from him since, and I have not tried to contact him either. I have been visualizing like crazy in the interim, but I have not heard a peep from him. And the strangest thing is, a lot of times when we are apart for just a day or two, I will think of him and I can sense him connecting with me, and this may sound bizarre, but I know we have connected because I can smell his cigars. For the past two weeks, I don't smell them at all when I think of him. I feel like he has broken his connection with me somehow. Anyway, I am looking for advice, tips, suggestions, support. I am totally at a loss and I'm scared that maybe we are finally over for good and that's why I don't sense him anymore. Should I give up?
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Don't give up! I'm not an expert and I can see your point of view! What also stands out is that there seems to be a push or a force from your end towards him and he might be feeling overwhelmed.. I would just say continue doing what you did while you were manifesting him! No force just be happy with yourself! I'm positive that some of the other people here will have more advice for you! Hang in there!