Hello @LostOfLove!

You don't align with people, things or experiences per se, you align to possibilities. You, as an individual expression of Consciousness, vibrate at a certain frequency, and such vibration will bring forward different possibilities that are on the same vibration as well, wich means, realities that would make you feel like you are feeling as the moment, realities that look like your state of being. 

Stop focussing on what your ex is doing, that is a circumstance, and it doesn't matter. All that matters is your inner world, as your inner world is what dictates what's manifesting into your life. Keep in mind that negative belief can overwrite your most powerful wishes and desires. 

Also, everything has a gestation time. Don't go about asking when or how is it coming, just enjoy your life and keep living happy, effortlessly, and joyful. As Benthino Massaro says, "enjoy the lack while it lasts"

If you have been really good and happy lately, keep at it. Good things are coming your way, while bad things - possibilities that are not aligned with you - will stay away. So don't question the process, trust the process, surrender to the process.

What's the worst thing that could happen if you're already happy? 

I could also add one of the 5 universal principles. The Law of Attraction is one of them, but the Lar of Rhythm is also an important law. It dictates that everything takes the time to manifest, and your desires will shape into your life like a pendulum: just before you finally get your dreams, you will get the opposite of your dream, but when the pendulum comes around, you'll finally see it in your physical reality.

I hope it helps. Feel free to ask me further questions