Thanks everyone. I will let you know, when my blog goes online.

rpt.sunnymist wrote:

So people come here & don't know what to do, so they write there story because any words regarded to there story will make them feel so much better.

I wasn't talking about their first story. I was talking about telling it a second and a third time and "updating" on their situation after they should know better.

rpt.sunnymist wrote:

Don't leave this forum if you can handle it.

I made my decision. I won't waste my time and energy anymore.

waterlilli wrote:

veronica uses neville goddard lectures as the way. nothing about self love actually. its in the imagination. i think where the confusion comes in is when others use non neville goddard knowledge or give non neville goddard advise. if people would stick with only neville perhaps there would be more clarity and understanding. understanding what neville teaches, what exactly does he mean when he says to "be in the state", what does he mean when he says " wish fulfilled " and to "hold something in the minds eye". its about "imagine lovingly"
 

Thanks for clarifying. I was indeed VERY confused. So I assume I can congratulate you to getting your ex back and you can take my place here then.

P.S.: I know why I talk about self-love lately. It's nothing random that I picked up anywhere and now I spread it witout any reason. And Veronica doesn't want anything else, but your money. I highly doubt that she is really able to use LoA in her own life consistently.

Justine wrote:

I think people need to understand LOA at its core and as a law first. Not in order to get their ex back. Once you understand and believe the basis, there is no place for despair.

Very true. This ex back crap is more hindering than helping.

I think if we don't take good care of ourselves / practise self love (and get a good understanding of what that means) results and success in life will be patchy. It took me years to understand that and I am far from perfect still.

Even if the teacher you're following doesn't directly mention self-love it doesn't mean that it's something you should leave out. If you don't take good care of yourself physically and mentally you're not going to get out of the slump you're in. From experience, I've let my appearance go, ate a lot of unhealthy food, consumed a lot of alcohol and so on. It's taken me a long time to understand this and I'm far from perfect but my needs have to come first. And it should be that way with everybody. You're not going to attract an ex back if you're sitting in a cluttered room, you haven't taken care of yourself and you're just neglecting yourself in general. You won't feel good and you cannot get the good while focused on the bad. 

I also think in a lot of cases people are after instant gratification and when they can't get that they start to spiral. Self-love comes first. Forever and always.

Last edited by Staceylouuu91x (5/11/2017 8:32 am)

neville teaches us about " being in the state".  when imagining , as its all in the mind, what would imply that you already have what you want.? his living in the end isnt about vision boards or pretending...its about the mind. its about faith and knowing. FreeNeville.com and Twenty Twenty on youtube explains neville in simple language.  its about keeping it simple. things will click with the right key. and neville goddard is the base of what veronica is talking about. its simple. we humans complicate things and hop from idea to idea ...there is gestation time. and here, in gestation, is where faith is tested. must spark joy uses the same concepts as neville. he is the base. 

people in resistance are resistant. so when sanshi shares her own personal opinion from her own individual perception with someone who is already individually resistant it and has their own personal individual perception this creates more resistance...not just for the person sanshi is wanting to help but in sanshi as well. and it spirals. its really quite unfortunate. people can only recieve to thier capacity and willingness to receieve....a question that is a good question is "would you be interested in looking at "this" from another point of view? in using this question or one like it one gives the other the choice to be open or not open. 

defensive people are on the defensive...that is their "state"...they are in the "state " of defence. so sanshi, being in her own individual perception that sanshi is being loving and helpful "state" is not received in that state becuase the other is in a state of defence. thus they feel attacked. its not that sanshi has actually attacked anyone. it is the "state" of the receiver to receive and the "state" of the defensive to defend. its more about how open the other is at looking at something from another point of view. 

there is also that sometimes people just want to be heard. and once they feel heard they can release it. thats why many wish to tell their story. they just want to be heard first from their own individual perspective so they can begin to heal. some peoples stories well up strong inside them and must burst free so that they themselves can be free from their story. not all are this way. but in some this is how they process. being stuck in a story is another thing. i am only referring to a persons initial process. 

Last edited by waterlilli (5/11/2017 2:32 pm)

Thank you waterlilli for this explanation.

Its so simple thing but our inner self make it hard as we want the manifestation fast & we try to use maximum ways to manifest.

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