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Selflove and our beliefs
Everybody tell that a selflove is so important and when we have selflove so we have a good relationships etc. But what if somebody have a selflove but dont have a good beliefs about mans or relationships?.. I think that have only selflove is less because when somebody love yourself but have always negative beliefs about boys etc so she dont will attract a good relationship right? Or not?
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For me, self-love includes that I care about how I feel. Negative beliefs don't feel good, so if you stick to them, you hurt yourself. Would you hurt yourself, if you would love yourself fully?
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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Sanshi wrote:
For me, self-love includes that I care about how I feel. Negative beliefs don't feel good, so if you stick to them, you hurt yourself. Would you hurt yourself, if you would love yourself fully?
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Thanks Sanshi it makes a sense, byΕ₯ I dont know delete past negative experience and I always afraid that they will repeat. I really try and I do Eft and work on myself but I think that when I will have a relationship so I will have a fear again that I will dissapointed again.
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And until you feel worthy enough to change that belief, it will be your experience again and again.
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise
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Re: Selflove and our beliefs
I think you are correct in that there are always men out there who are commitment phobes, players etc. But with a hefty supply of self-love and self-belief, you will not be drawn to that sort of person. They will either avoid you or you will suss them out very quickly and you will avoid them. It's about having the self-belief to know what you deserve and avoid those situations and people, not a blanket view about men and relationships in general because you can't generalise.
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Love is the source energy of God, and when you manifest, you're channeling your inner power that comes directly from the source to attract people, experiences, and possibilities into your live.Β
Self.love is the most powerful tool to make the universal laws work in your favor and not against you. And self-love will clear all of the beliefs that are holding you back from accomplishing the life of your dreams.Β
I understand your fear but think of it this way. The most important relationship is you with yourself, everything else comes next. And, also, every little bit you're are doing is adding more and more to your emotional weel-being
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I think it has to be both. self-love and self-belief. always remove the negativity in your life.
I think we manifest the very thing we put out. If you're putting out negativity, then you're going to retrieve that same sentiment. If you emanate joy, it comes back to you.
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