Yeah, to be fair. He does thank us.     I can see why people are annoyed at times, cause most people's threads will get 2 or 3 pages at most

Avaelle wrote:

I've been looking for Law of Attraction Meetups and will be checking one facility out this weekend. I think this is something you should look into.

A reason you've been here so long and are going in circles is because this material isn't working for YOU. It all sounds good and even makes you feel good briefly but how much progress are you making? Not just for you, but others. Multiple people have admitted that the things they post isn't producing results for even themselves.

How are you going to convince yourself that you can shift realities when you can't convince yourself that her family doesn't hate you?

I've come to care for you because I can feel what you're going through. It is time for you to stop feeling this pain.  You deserve so much more than to get your hopes up and being deceived.

I want you smiling and feeling good. Please look into those meetup. It will be great for you to meet real people that can advise and support you, be your friend and encourage you.

I'm always here to chat with.

 

I want to add that a lot of ex back material can be a drug for heartbroken people. I remember I used to read any article I could find on ex back BEFORE we even broke up. Funny thing was that I googled "how to prevent breakup" and was lead into so much ex back material. I even subscribed to free newsletters "just in case" we broke up. I totally manifested a breakup with that mindset. But these free articles and videos get addictive, but then you need a stronger drug so you start buying ebooks only to learn it's the same material as the articles, but you still want more so if you have the money you find a psychic or ex back coach who'll give you a "custom" solution which is the same as their book. Now, I know there are ex back coaches, including Beronica, who genuinely care about their clients, but there are a few black sheep who tarnish the industry.

I went on a tangent but I just want to ask YesIWill to stop using this as a drug. I think LOA gives a lot of false hope to people who are broken hearted and are looking for a quick fix. I'm not saying you can't get them back with LOA, you can but only when you COMPLETELY let go.

By letting go, you have to almost act as if they don't exist currently. You acknowledge the role they played in your past, you express a desire to have them in your future, but you allow yourself to live for TODAY. Cause you get only one TODAY. And you only have a finite number of days to live, each day is one day closer to the last. The moment you start living for yourself you attract wonders. You start smiling for no reason. Little things just make you happy, and that happiness becomes your drug. Trust me, I know. Just this morning, I was supposed to go to a conference in the city only to find out it was tomorrow. I used the free time I had to take a walk along the beach. I had planned to do this more this summer but didn't think I'd do it this morning. But you don't know how happy and peaceful I felt. That's the feeling you should be addicted to, not some delusional hope that if you do the right technique she'll come back.

Start focussing on your medical help too. These pros know what they're doing.

So I saw her mother at work again.

I was being polite, helped her find things. After a pause she asked, "are you still contacting my daughter?".

I told her no, which is the truth.

She said "that's good. For the both of you to go your separate ways."

And I told her "yeah... I really miss her but I just want her to be happy..."

And I asked how her Mother's Day was, she said it went well. She asked how mine was, and how I'm doing, I told her "I've been better. You know. And yeah! I bought my mother lunch and bought her flowers and a funny card. Wanted her to have a great day."

And she replied "that's good, that's good".

And I ended the conversation by saying "if you need anything at all, please let me know. I'd be more than happy to help!"

So it kind of hurt when she told me it's good that we're going our separate ways, pretty much saying "don't talk to my daughter".



Trying hard to stay positive. So there's that! It kinda diminishes my hope that we will be together in the future though :/

Can someone help me find the positives in this please?

You need to stop taking everything personal. What only matters is your state of being, or how you feel and who you are in the present moment.

 

You're right guys. I can still get her back, somehow. Thank you.