Sanshi wrote:

creator1980 wrote:

Sanshi wrote:

Nothing goes against LoA. You always get what you expect, no matter what it is. Expecting other people to think bad stuff is a valid choice, but not the one I prefer. That's the reason why I want to change it.
 

 
Does that include people we admire respect and love?
I mean I don't care what most people think about me with vert few exceptions

How people interact with you is always dependent on your vibration, regardless of who they are. If you care about someone, you better expect them to think great thoughts about you. I told myself that my ex (probably the guy who loved me the most EVER) wouldn't love me, without having any indicators for that. Well, after a while, I got my indicators. Worked pretty well. But it also works in the other direction of course.

Yeah I know what you mean I did the same with my love and now trying to feel better in order to have a new relationship I believe I am almost there as far as loving myself and doing things for my well being concerns.

Sanshi wrote:

creator1980 wrote:

Yeah I know what you mean I did the same with my love and now trying to feel better in order to have a new relationship I believe I am almost there as far as loving myself and doing things for my well being concerns.

Don't try to feel better in order to get something. Feel better, because you want to feel better and everything else will come to you. You are on the right path.
 

 
Oh my mistake my English are a bit rusty and I make mistakes like this...

Currently I am focused mostly in me being better doing lots of self love affirmations,meditation and being grateful for what I have.

But I sometimes do some techniques for her 😜

And yes sometimes I get confused and think that being better and whole again is going to bring her back when I should just focus on being better and happy without expecting her to come in to my life again

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

I think sometimes people think they have to improve themselves and be perfect, or the best current version of themselves, to be deserving of their ex, or other person they want; this needs clarity.

Yeah i get that, I think its more we should accept ourselves and no our worth. We don't have to change (unless we want to make some changes) We just need to value ourselves! xx

Meg2222 wrote:

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

I think sometimes people think they have to improve themselves and be perfect, or the best current version of themselves, to be deserving of their ex, or other person they want; this needs clarity.

Yeah i get that, I think its more we should accept ourselves and no our worth. We don't have to change (unless we want to make some changes) We just need to value ourselves! xx

We need to change our vibration. That means that we have to change our thinking. If someone sees that as "changing ourselves" is probably a question of definition.

I had an amazing mediation session today.
When I ended it, I thought I might have been "away" for 40 mins. Or so.
But I was actually in session for 1 hour and 30 mins.
And I didn't even wanted to stop, coz I was in such a great place.
My best session to date.