Meg2222 wrote:

Don't think too much into it, he saw it as an excuse to message you! That is a positive, don't worry about everything else, just know he is yours and this is the process of you coming back to each other. Just feel grateful and affirm to the universe more of this please! xx

I'm okay with it now. At this moment it just made me mad because it's obvious he was just searching for an opportunity to write me lol. And I remembered what he said at the movies 'you said if I miss you I should write you and that's what I did' soo he misses me. Yesterday it was like our connection was suddenly sooo much stronger than the past few months it was like in the beginning. I knew he would write me I felt it. I even thought I heard the ringtone I chose for his messages as a friend wrote me shortly before him and I already thought I would get crazy and only after 10 minutes he really wrote me.
I don't know if some of you know this kinda 'telepathic' connection too but after we wrote I suddenly felt nervous and it came out of nowhere so I knew it wasn't my feeling so I decided to do some PW on him and tell him that everything is fine but even before I could tell him that he told me suddenly 'sorry that I'm acting that way but I'm afraid. I want you back but I'm afraid that it won't work out and I'll be lonely again' I really didn't plan to let him say that :O. Then I just told him that it's okay he doesn't need to be worried and he should take his time and come to me if he's ready and that he doesn't need to be afraid because I won't leave him and that I love him..
Almost immediately after that the nervous feeling was away. An hour later it was like he did RS on me xDD It was sooo crazy really.

So I'm pretty sure he's really struggling with his feelings right now and he sure didn't wrote me just because of my mum lol. I guess it's just a matter of time now until he will get to me and opening up

rpt.sunnymist wrote:

There is only one thing he reached out, he Miss you ☺.
Whatever he says it all "Excuses".
When he reach out & go silent then do not be with low vibes by it.
Be normal first then continue on track with high vibes by thinking only that "he miss me he messaged me😇"


Sending you high vibes.

Yeeeees I see it the same way ☺. And for me it's an absolute good sign that he still cares about my family and want to look good in the eyes of my mom because he knows how much I love her. If he wouldn't want me back ever he wouldn't have done that.

Thanks so much yeah I'm totally happy about it and I guess it's a progress so I'll wait what will happen next.

Avaelle wrote:

It's HUGE success.  It is clear that he misses you and will make up excuses to contact you.  I bet it can be frustrating to know that he is hiding his true feelings but try not to get mad. Keep yourself cool, calm and collected.  Keep the conversation with him light, fun and airy. Just enjoy!

Yeah I'll just take it as a huge step in the right direction . But we aren't really in contact atm. As I said he tried to make it look like he only wrote because of my mum ... but anyway he'll come back I'm sure about that. This was just another proof that he cares for me and my family

unicornsandrainbows wrote:

MadMoiselle87 wrote:

Avaelle wrote:

It's HUGE success.  It is clear that he misses you and will make up excuses to contact you.  I bet it can be frustrating to know that he is hiding his true feelings but try not to get mad. Keep yourself cool, calm and collected.  Keep the conversation with him light, fun and airy. Just enjoy!

Yeah I'll just take it as a huge step in the right direction . But we aren't really in contact atm. As I said he tried to make it look like he only wrote because of my mum ... but anyway he'll come back I'm sure about that. This was just another proof that he cares for me and my family

Why do men do this?  They are always so damn afraid!  They say they want to be happy.  They are really happy when they spend time with us.  And THEN they disappear because they are afraid.  Afraid of what?  Being happy?  Why are they afraid of being happy?!!

Anyway, several of us are in this same boat.  It's good to see you being so positive about it, it helps me with my own situation.  At least we know the feelings are there.  Keep going, Madmoiselle, with love in your heart.  He can't resist forever.  And if he does, he will only be making himself miserable.

I don't know ... but what's worse for me that he's with another girl right now... but I'll try to stay positive. We're taking small steps like him liking pictures of me on Facebook, commenting on stuff we both like and now he wrote me ... so we will see how things will unfold I'm sure he won't be able to resist for much longer.