I've been here since November 2015.   Ive learned a lot on my journey, one of the things I wish I did differently.  Was instead of trying to get her back at first, I wish I would have for the first few months was to fully get myself back and become confident again

It's funny, a few weeks after I joined this site, I actually had a chance to get her back, I was obviously not ready yet.  Me being desperate really pushed her away.   I mean, at one time.  During that 2-3 week span where I almost got her back, she was wanting to talk on the phone and all that stuff

From what I know, most people don't like talking on the phone unless if they have to or if they like you

Looking back, I'm happy I didn't get her back right then and there, I would have lost her probably not long after, since I wasn't ready to be in a relationship

Since I've started becoming "myself" again, I've talked to and got to known a decent amount of girls, I've realized.  There's a lot pf people that could be "the one".  It's something we might not realize when we are obsessing over someone

But now that I'm in the right frame of mind, meeting the people.  I still realize that I want her back and know it will happen


I've honestly learned, that you can really have anything you want, if you truly believe it, there's really no limits.  Unless we put it on ourselves