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Before I start I'm just going to say don't repeat your old stories unless they benefit you! I'm just posting mine here for context sake so it can make a little sense, it might get a little rambly.
I originally set out to manifest contact with a guy I'd met online, we'll call him A, I manifested him cutting contact with me and of course, he did! So I decided that our story wasn't done and set out learning as much as I could about the art of manifesting relationships with exes/specific people since this was an area I was new to and only did on a subconscious level, breakups included. While A and I were in contact I did things to better myself and keep myself happy, I read outside in the sun, spent time with some friends and did so many things to please me and only me. Along came the current man in my life, we spoke daily during the time A would ignore me and he just dropped off the radar one day, then A messaged me! I was so happy but the doubts and old story crept back in and I worried it'd happen again, so of course, it had to. A cut me off again and I was devasted, went on a downward spiral for months and it seems that during those moments of desperation and sadness I'd reverted back to autopilot. I got nowhere, I was always sad, I didn't sleep and I neglected to care for myself.
I went back to square one and did all the research again, did the scripting, visualising but I was doing it for the sake of getting him back, the wrong move. All I'd manifest is more lack. I stumbled across the topic of remote seduction, so I started with that and did it occasionally and because I didn't see results instantly wrote it off as a failure. After sticking around this forum I saw users talking about Lanie Steven's books and since I have Kindle Unlimited I borrowed Burn With Desire, read that and the whole subject clicked instantly. I bought Pussy Whip along with Burn With Desire not long after along with some guided meditations. I recommend these books if you haven't read them.
I spoke to Veronica a few times since she was the person gave me the guidance to manifest A back originally and with what I learned from Lanie I had the arsenal and information to shape my world. I won't pretend it was an overnight thing, it took me a while to learn the process was about me again. I started manifesting so many other things so quickly and all the words I'd read in books and heard in the YouTube videos began to make perfect sense. The current guy restarted contact with me again and originally my first reaction was "You're not A!" but as the days went on I figured talking to him wouldn't affect the end goal. I told myself that I could have A or someone miles better. In time the current guy in my life grew closer online, we spoke daily and eventually met in person. It was great. Doubts started creeping in again though and we fell out. This time, however, I noticed my thoughts altering my world, we sorted it rather quickly and carried on talking happily, we even had plans to spend time together again. I managed to manifest a small holiday away which also happened to be the weekend we were supposed to be together, then panicked we'd fall out again. You know what happened next. We didn't speak at all when I was away and I worried all sorts of things, which happened. I wanted to speak to him so bad but I didn't let it consume me, my friend messaged him for me and he told her he owed me an apology. This has dragged on, so if you've read this far, you're a saint! I'll wrap it up as soon as I can. As it stands now we're not an item, I'm emitting a lot of mixed signals but my reality is responding to my thoughts and situations and his behaviour always line up. He's never really had a girlfriend but implied I should ask him and see how it goes for me, I told him I'd rather play it by ear and see how our next meetings play out. We're seeing a movie this week and watching Wrestlemania together April 2nd.
This isn't a perfect story and is a massive work in progress since I'm learning as I'm going but now I see everything working and have a whole new understanding and less resistance towards things. He isn't my boyfriend but you know what? I adore his company and we get along so this could be something beautiful once I am able to be 100% on target.
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Why do people worry all the time when in a relationship or early stages that things will go wrong?
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Staceylouuu91x wrote:
Before I start I'm just going to say don't repeat your old stories unless they benefit you! I'm just posting mine here for context sake so it can make a little sense, it might get a little rambly.
I originally set out to manifest contact with a guy I'd met online, we'll call him A, I manifested him cutting contact with me and of course, he did! So I decided that our story wasn't done and set out learning as much as I could about the art of manifesting relationships with exes/specific people since this was an area I was new to and only did on a subconscious level, breakups included. While A and I were in contact I did things to better myself and keep myself happy, I read outside in the sun, spent time with some friends and did so many things to please me and only me. Along came the current man in my life, we spoke daily during the time A would ignore me and he just dropped off the radar one day, then A messaged me! I was so happy but the doubts and old story crept back in and I worried it'd happen again, so of course, it had to. A cut me off again and I was devasted, went on a downward spiral for months and it seems that during those moments of desperation and sadness I'd reverted back to autopilot. I got nowhere, I was always sad, I didn't sleep and I neglected to care for myself.
I went back to square one and did all the research again, did the scripting, visualising but I was doing it for the sake of getting him back, the wrong move. All I'd manifest is more lack. I stumbled across the topic of remote seduction, so I started with that and did it occasionally and because I didn't see results instantly wrote it off as a failure. After sticking around this forum I saw users talking about Lanie Steven's books and since I have Kindle Unlimited I borrowed Burn With Desire, read that and the whole subject clicked instantly. I bought Pussy Whip along with Burn With Desire not long after along with some guided meditations. I recommend these books if you haven't read them.
I spoke to Veronica a few times since she was the person gave me the guidance to manifest A back originally and with what I learned from Lanie I had the arsenal and information to shape my world. I won't pretend it was an overnight thing, it took me a while to learn the process was about me again. I started manifesting so many other things so quickly and all the words I'd read in books and heard in the YouTube videos began to make perfect sense. The current guy restarted contact with me again and originally my first reaction was "You're not A!" but as the days went on I figured talking to him wouldn't affect the end goal. I told myself that I could have A or someone miles better. In time the current guy in my life grew closer online, we spoke daily and eventually met in person. It was great. Doubts started creeping in again though and we fell out. This time, however, I noticed my thoughts altering my world, we sorted it rather quickly and carried on talking happily, we even had plans to spend time together again. I managed to manifest a small holiday away which also happened to be the weekend we were supposed to be together, then panicked we'd fall out again. You know what happened next. We didn't speak at all when I was away and I worried all sorts of things, which happened. I wanted to speak to him so bad but I didn't let it consume me, my friend messaged him for me and he told her he owed me an apology. This has dragged on, so if you've read this far, you're a saint! I'll wrap it up as soon as I can. As it stands now we're not an item, I'm emitting a lot of mixed signals but my reality is responding to my thoughts and situations and his behaviour always line up. He's never really had a girlfriend but implied I should ask him and see how it goes for me, I told him I'd rather play it by ear and see how our next meetings play out. We're seeing a movie this week and watching Wrestlemania together April 2nd.
This isn't a perfect story and is a massive work in progress since I'm learning as I'm going but now I see everything working and have a whole new understanding and less resistance towards things. He isn't my boyfriend but you know what? I adore his company and we get along so this could be something beautiful once I am able to be 100% on target.
How did April 2nd go? Thank you for this, this is something I really needed to read today.
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Wow, this gave me a lot of inspiration, i love to read these stories when I am in doubt, thank you for sharing, lots of love to you!!!
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PrettyFlamingo wrote:
Why do people worry all the time when in a relationship or early stages that things will go wrong?
Its only human and natural to worry when you have been hurt before. Although we know the law of attraction its sometimes very hard to shift into a different well being where we are secure, confident and positive. Its not an over night thing, especially if you really care about someone and you really don't want it to go wrong lol x
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Meg2222 wrote:
PrettyFlamingo wrote:
Why do people worry all the time when in a relationship or early stages that things will go wrong?
Its only human and natural to worry when you have been hurt before. Although we know the law of attraction its sometimes very hard to shift into a different well being where we are secure, confident and positive. Its not an over night thing, especially if you really care about someone and you really don't want it to go wrong lol x
Yeah I feel the same way its the start of a wonderful feling and you want it to last so we give in to fear and mess it all up...at least thats what i did lol
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creator1980 wrote:
Meg2222 wrote:
PrettyFlamingo wrote:
Why do people worry all the time when in a relationship or early stages that things will go wrong?
Its only human and natural to worry when you have been hurt before. Although we know the law of attraction its sometimes very hard to shift into a different well being where we are secure, confident and positive. Its not an over night thing, especially if you really care about someone and you really don't want it to go wrong lol x
Yeah I feel the same way its the start of a wonderful feling and you want it to last so we give in to fear and mess it all up...at least thats what i did lol
At least you are aware of it and can make a change! Don't worry, you have done it before you can do it again, my best advice would be to focus on your limiting beliefs and keep affirming I AM ENOUGH. x
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Meg2222 wrote:
creator1980 wrote:
Meg2222 wrote:
Its only human and natural to worry when you have been hurt before. Although we know the law of attraction its sometimes very hard to shift into a different well being where we are secure, confident and positive. Its not an over night thing, especially if you really care about someone and you really don't want it to go wrong lol x
Yeah I feel the same way its the start of a wonderful feling and you want it to last so we give in to fear and mess it all up...at least thats what i did lol
At least you are aware of it and can make a change! Don't worry, you have done it before you can do it again, my best advice would be to focus on your limiting beliefs and keep affirming I AM ENOUGH. x
Have i done what before??
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creator1980 wrote:
Meg2222 wrote:
creator1980 wrote:
Yeah I feel the same way its the start of a wonderful feling and you want it to last so we give in to fear and mess it all up...at least thats what i did lol
At least you are aware of it and can make a change! Don't worry, you have done it before you can do it again, my best advice would be to focus on your limiting beliefs and keep affirming I AM ENOUGH. x
Have i done what before??
Oh I'm sorry I must have misread! I thought you said you had messed it all up again! As in this was the second time. My bad sorry, I'm at work so half concentrating! xx
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Meg2222 wrote:
creator1980 wrote:
Meg2222 wrote:
At least you are aware of it and can make a change! Don't worry, you have done it before you can do it again, my best advice would be to focus on your limiting beliefs and keep affirming I AM ENOUGH. x
Have i done what before??
Oh I'm sorry I must have misread! I thought you said you had messed it all up again! As in this was the second time. My bad sorry, I'm at work so half concentrating! xx
I on the other hand saw this in a positive perspective as if i have done it before attracting my love back lol
No worries i enjoyed a good laugh....of course i messed up but hopefuly not again