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Something else I've been wondering about is.. If you are feeling good about attracting a specific person but currently feeling horrible about another subject in your life such as your job, could this hinder you attracting the person?
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From what I've heard it can, I mean everything is connected together for the most part
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Well, look at your life. Is everything going well/badly at the same time or is it possible that your relationship goes well, but your job is a mess? In my experience, it's about how you feel about the thing itself, not how you feel in general. When you feel bad, you don't feel bad without a reason. The feeling is connected to a subject and for that subject, you attract in that moment what you don't want. Abraham say "your vibration on a subject is where you last left it". For example, you just got fired and feel terrible about money, but if someone would bring up roses, you would feel good about that, because you felt good about roses the last time you thought about them. I think there is something like a vibrational memory. There is a feeling connected to every subject and you can tap into that the moment you change your focus. So, if you can manage to get your vibration about the person in the right place before you feel horrible about the job, the person still has to show up in my opinion.
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Sanshi wrote:
Well, look at your life. Is everything going well/badly at the same time or is it possible that your relationship goes well, but your job is a mess? In my experience, it's about how you feel about the thing itself, not how you feel in general. When you feel bad, you don't feel bad without a reason. The feeling is connected to a subject and for that subject, you attract in that moment what you don't want. Abraham say "your vibration on a subject is where you last left it". For example, you just got fired and feel terrible about money, but if someone would bring up roses, you would feel good about that, because you felt good about roses the last time you thought about them. I think there is something like a vibrational memory. There is a feeling connected to every subject and you can tap into that the moment you change your focus. So, if you can manage to get your vibration about the person in the right place before you feel horrible about the job, the person still has to show up in my opinion.
So in this case if you have a bad day at your job, you can think about doing something fun with your specific person later.. You can still think that you are with them even while other things are going wrong. That makes sense to me.