Avaelle wrote:

I don't think it was necessary to ask him "Is that it?" It put him in the hot seat

Yeah but this was AFTER he wanted to say goodbye in that cold way and in my opinion (which all people who know our story from the beginning understand) wasn't it okay to act that way after three months if you care for somebody.. I didn't expect that he admits his love to me but having a nice talk if we don't even know when or if we even see us again shouldn't be too much expected.

And if i should forget all of this it doesn't help at all remember me over and over again how worse my behavior it was.

Avaelle wrote:

I think the first step is to identify any trouble areas so that we can get to the bottom of them, address them and resolve them.  That way, moving forward you'd have more desirable results. 

Then,  the next step would be to forget how this went. Otherwise,  I think things would continue to play out the same. In the end,  I think that it's something you can keep trying until it ends the way you want.
 

Guess I'll follow megs advice that sounds great and she was in the same situation. But thank you

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