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DOING THE IMPOSSIBLE AGAIN
For those of you who know my stories, well lets just say I've got her back twice and one was from what would be considered an impossible sotuation... Anyways i spent nearly 2yrs hating and loving her and having so much rage and anger towards her. But I've made that decision to completely focus on forgiveness of myself and her. Once thats done I'll get her back from what most people would consider another impossible situation.
I know we shouldn't talk about our current reality but im letting you know the CURRENT situation. Basically shes been in a relationship now for over 18months and its serious and they have bought a house together.
As ive stated in the past i think getting an ex back is very easy and me telling you my current situation, is so when were together again and she confesses to still being in love with me it'll give you a boost in knowing nothing is impossible and remember its been 2yrs.
And just to make it that bit more IMPOSSIBLE, we have no means of communication, neither of us have each others number, i dont do social media and we dont have mutual friends or ever see each other, we really have no ways of communicating.
JUST REMEMBER ALL WHAT I'VE SAID WHEN WE'RE BACK TOGETHER!! When that happens, i dont want anyone complaining or moaning that there situation is hopeless or impossible...
- PrettyFlamingo
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Re: DOING THE IMPOSSIBLE AGAIN
I said to someone else yesterday who kept using the phrase "get her back" to stop it and told him these women are not lost property! I've lost my vintage brooch this morning and had to contact lost property and am not happy about it.
What you really want, I would think, is a totally different and new relationship. Otherwise it comes across as one-upmanship in trying to prise this person away from others.
I was very guilty of that in my teens and 20s, now I see I just did it to feed my self esteem.
Be a flamingo in a flock of pigeons.
- BooLala
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Re: DOING THE IMPOSSIBLE AGAIN
PrettyFlamingo wrote:
I said to someone else yesterday who kept using the phrase "get her back" to stop it and told him these women are not lost property! I've lost my vintage brooch this morning and had to contact lost property and am not happy about it.
What you really want, I would think, is a totally different and new relationship. Otherwise it comes across as one-upmanship in trying to prise this person away from others.
I was very guilty of that in my teens and 20s, now I see I just did it to feed my self esteem.
Thats were it gets complicated, she isnt just some woman. I did a detailed, very detailed list of my dream woman and its her, literally. It was both love at first sight for us but cos of the way i was being hot headed and not ready i pushed her away.
So when i got her back, i fell into the same old pattern and expected her to cut me off again it eventually happened. And then the same again and so on.
Its never been an ego or self esteem thing.
I dated other women and done everything to move on but something within me just wont let me.
As i said its been 2yrs now and its my anger thats held me back. I dont do one upmanship...
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Thread Starter- Avaelle
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Re: DOING THE IMPOSSIBLE AGAIN
What I notice is that you've truly embedded reasons why it will not or can't happen. I mean, you're really beating it in by convincing yourself and even us that it's impossible. I'd suggest you start to look at the positive side of things and stay in that place. People break up all of the time. A little over a year isn't even long because we all know that time flies. Plus, they they brought a house but so what? A year from now they could end up regretting it and thinking it is the biggest regret of their lives.
You will be her next love if that is what you want to happen. Stop creating reasons why you shouldn't and will not be.
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- BooLala
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Re: DOING THE IMPOSSIBLE AGAIN
What I notice is that you've truly embedded reasons why it will not or can't happen. I mean, you're really beating it in by convincing yourself and even us that it's impossible. I'd suggest you start to look at the positive side of things and stay in that place. People break up all of the time. A little over a year isn't even long because we all know that time flies. Plus, they they brought a house but so what? A year from now they could end up regretting it and thinking it is the biggest regret of their lives.
You will be her next love if that is what you want to happen. Stop creating reasons why you shouldn't and will not be.
Sorry, im saying impossible because in a lot of ppls eyes it is but im saying it to prove that despite what is visually in front of me it can still change, its why i mentioned about already getting her back in the past from another "impossible" situation.
Im trying to show ppl that despite whatever is on front it can stil go the way you want no matter what!!
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