PrettyFlamingo wrote:

You say that deep down you think things are over with this person and you wanted to change your beliefs about that.

Just imagine for a minute that were true. Would you never go on a date with anyone else?

You bring up the best points lmaooo. 

This is a great question though, I remember when I first started my journey.  I could never see myself with someone else, at first. I didn't think I could get someone else.      It's funny.  Now I'm kind of talking to someone else.

I'm curious to know how long has it been since you guys broke up?

Your biggest problem is and I think you know this is that you don't believe,  and that gives you anxiety about the whole situation in general.. now how to get you to believe? hmmm, I honestly don't know, personally it took me a little while to believe and have confidence in it. 

I think  even though it's good to talk to others, I think having some "alone time" would help  plus working on the anxiety and depression(I think you mentioned you had depression)  it's hard, but you have to get to the point where your will power is stronger than your doubt, right now that's tricky, since your doubt is VERY high.  I think if I was you, I would try to start thinking about how to get your will power stronger as opposed to getting her back,  of course you want her back, but if you don't BELIEVE that you can get her back  it won't happen

Dan2015 wrote:

Your biggest problem is and I think you know this is that you don't believe,  and that gives you anxiety about the whole situation in general.. now how to get you to believe? hmmm, I honestly don't know, personally it took me a little while to believe and have confidence in it. 

I think  even though it's good to talk to others, I think having some "alone time" would help  plus working on the anxiety and depression(I think you mentioned you had depression)  it's hard, but you have to get to the point where your will power is stronger than your doubt, right now that's tricky, since your doubt is VERY high.  I think if I was you, I would try to start thinking about how to get your will power stronger as opposed to getting her back,  of course you want her back, but if you don't BELIEVE that you can get her back  it won't happen

I have a random question, if you didn't know about LOA  do you think  you would have tried to move on?[

Thank you. Yes that's the problem. Maybe more-so, about not just my belief in LoA in general, but in the belief that I can get her back... that's where I really struggle and it's really really tough. 

I'd give anything to remove all my doubts right now. I really could use a hug from her right now. I kinda need it? If that makes sense?

And to your question... I don't know. I really don't know... I wish I could just wake up tomorrow and BAM, she's here in my life again. 

Colonel Roosevelt wrote:

Blue wrote:

Also, I'm pretty sure you're the same person on Lanie's forum who also got a warning for your behavior towards others. So I wouldn't be pointing fingers about anyone's attitude if I were you.

oh snap, I wanna see this, send me the link
 

It's common knowledge that's me, I thougth you knew. I was rude because you were rude first, that's how it is.