Cherished wrote:

Remember that a majority of people operate unconsciously, and from a really low vibration. They create by default. So your positivity probably seems absolutely bonkers to others. Don't share your vision.. Keep it to yourself or talk about it here, where we are all as cray cray as you 😜

Seriously though, from an outsider looking in, the way LOA'ers handle things is completely bizarre and WISHFUL (how many times have I heard that lol.) That's ok, everyone is entitled to their own viewpoint. But I won't ever be allowing ANYONE to create in MY reality. I know what I want, I imagine it, I visualise it, I raise my vibration, I get it. Follow our lead here, and please completely ignore ANY advice that doesn't positively delight you 😘

I've been reading this topic in particular over and over as I feel there's so much doubt around me about getting back with my guy.

I remember Veronica telling me EVERYTHING that happens during this process is bringing him back to you whether you know it or not!

Yesterday a mutual friend put me on a downer basically saying 'it's never gonna happen...' It's hard not to let others opinions affect you... But I want to believe anything is possible! And whatever anyone says is definitely a reflection of a vibe within yourself.

Also it made me think of incredibly successful celebrities and actors (I know will smith is big on loa!) and how many people I'm SURE said to them yeah you're not gonna make it.. Dream big but not that big... And they just did it anyway

Cherished wrote:

When anyone says something that upsets you,  simply use it as a signal to check your current fears and put them back to bed 😊

It's really helpful to me- when someone misbehaves in my presence, I think "uh oh cherished, you've dropped your vibration, let's get outta here!" I don't so much listen to the content of what people are saying. I focus mostly on what their energy is portraying. And then I ALWAYS see clearly, a correlation between their behaviour and my vibration. Always. Use it to your advantage 💜

Yes! It's the same kind of feeling of.. Ok I caused this.. I can change this just as fast! It reminds me of an Abraham Hicks talk where they were talking about how Jerry realised in his dream he was putting the words in people's mouths, writing them their own script.

This video might be helpful!

http://youtu.be/AWvYCqJl6xY

That video is GOLD!  I experienced this the other day,  when I was flying high and a lovely old gentleman asked for my assistance. We had a wonderful conversation and as I waved goodbye he tipped his hat, bowed and said "my dear, if I were 60 years younger I would carry you home over my shoulder  and never let you go!" He was so lovely, it was like out of a black and white film lol. And it was just a beautiful exchange because we were both happily going about our day enjoying the magic. 💜🌈

When you have awkward interactions, no big deal, just reflect on your vibration and adjust your thoughts. When you have an incredibly beautiful exchange, celebrate the connection you have, and appreciate the moment xx

Also.. I remembered just now Esther Hicks' voice in my head about doubters when people say something is impossible "But they don't know what you know..."

They don't know the magic of loa

Love5278 wrote:

I feel like I have been doing amazing this week . I'm staying positive I just thought that maybe it would be easier to sole focus on things with my girlfriend if I had all of my friends around me and with me

I had a similar situation with my birthday in spring, I was barely speaking to my guy at the time or any of my friends. I wasn't hearing from anyone, on the day of my birthday I woke up and felt awful, but I said ok universe, I need you now deliver me something amazing today.

My guy (who I'm currently nc with) ended up spending the whole day with me and surprising me by bringing in my best friend from out of town. It's one of the only times I cried with joy.

Even if you're in a negative space your higher vibe of love can still make miracles happen! Surrender and feel as good as you can about it (even if that's not that great) Please take this as a sign that something wonderful can happen for you too xxxxx