BooLala wrote:

Because ppl seem to get it all then quickly get discouraged waiting for it to happen. I literally spoke my girl into existence when she first cut me off.
But dont do it like a routine chore, just have a little faith and persistence. When i first got my girl, even the 2nd time, i didnt go on internet looking up websites i just went for it. After the first time i got her back, when she cut me off 2nd time i already knew i could get her back as i did once before. Had a day or 2 of letting the current reality sink in then i switched it and focused and US again and it worked.
As i said i honestly think getting an ex back is easy

Hah, you're right: I won't think it's cheesy in the slightest once she returns. And it does help. Normally, it puts a big smile on my face, and a fire in my belly, and I drift off visualizing us together. It also has increased the number of dreams I have about us, which is exciting and invigorating.

I appreciate the steps you've outlined. I'm certain this is what I want, the loving, wonderful, lifetime-long relationship with my soulmate. I've grown a lot, and I'm ready for it. I think I do have some fear and guilt from before, but I'm working on releasing them through burning exercises and trying to talk better to myself. I feel what you say is true, and I look forward to the Universe doing its magic.

What do you mean when you say that you spoke her into existence? My love's cut me off temporarily, so I'm curious. It doesn't feel like a chore, these techniques, and I genuinely feel better after doing them, like after going for a run. It's impressive you just went for it: This is all new to me, so this site has been helpful getting me on the right track.

I'm going to start repeating that: Thinking back my love is easy, and it will happen soon.

BooLala wrote:

TheChemist wrote:

BooLala wrote:

Because ppl seem to get it all then quickly get discouraged waiting for it to happen. I literally spoke my girl into existence when she first cut me off.
But dont do it like a routine chore, just have a little faith and persistence. When i first got my girl, even the 2nd time, i didnt go on internet looking up websites i just went for it. After the first time i got her back, when she cut me off 2nd time i already knew i could get her back as i did once before. Had a day or 2 of letting the current reality sink in then i switched it and focused and US again and it worked.
As i said i honestly think getting an ex back is easy

Hah, you're right: I won't think it's cheesy in the slightest once she returns. And it does help. Normally, it puts a big smile on my face, and a fire in my belly, and I drift off visualizing us together. It also has increased the number of dreams I have about us, which is exciting and invigorating.

I appreciate the steps you've outlined. I'm certain this is what I want, the loving, wonderful, lifetime-long relationship with my soulmate. I've grown a lot, and I'm ready for it. I think I do have some fear and guilt from before, but I'm working on releasing them through burning exercises and trying to talk better to myself. I feel what you say is true, and I look forward to the Universe doing its magic.

What do you mean when you say that you spoke her into existence? My love's cut me off temporarily, so I'm curious. It doesn't feel like a chore, these techniques, and I genuinely feel better after doing them, like after going for a run. It's impressive you just went for it: This is all new to me, so this site has been helpful getting me on the right track.

I'm going to start repeating that: Thinking back my love is easy, and it will happen soon.

I mean, i just spoke to ppl and acted my life as tho i had her. I literally spoke my girl into my life as tho it was already happening.

Interesting...I started doing that recently and it feels great. I guess I'll keep it up and pour my belief into it.

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

Complete two hander this thread isn't it? 😃

...what?

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

TheChemist wrote:

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

Complete two hander this thread isn't it? 😃

...what?

I meant it's a discussion between two people, nobody else seems to be commenting

Their loss

TheChemist wrote:

BooLala wrote:

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

I meant it's a discussion between two people, nobody else seems to be commenting

Their loss

Hah, yeah. Everyone's reading it, though, and the advice is gold.

I think its so easy to get an ex back.
The advantage already is that there's already that connection, hence the word ex. You were an item. So there is the attraction state. The battle is having the clear focus. Once you have that focus and NOTHING from the past is holding you back it literally is the home stretch